my recently-made-ex bf, who i am still friends with, wont call me for a couple days and cancells plans. then hell call out of the blue. and try to reschedule.. i am only suspicious bc it has happened about a dozen times now that the plans have fallen through...
the fact that he calls after makes me wonder if maybe the "playing with my feelings" by cancelling plans makes him feel guilty, so he calls me. or maybe he is just trying to get my hopes for seeing him up again?
last time he called to reschedule, i said I would call HIM.. i dont like him playing with my feelings so i havent called (a taste of his own medicine) but i miss himand really want to see him. i dunno if i should call him bc then ill look desperate and too interested (and if you act uninterested they want you more) but i dunno how long i can hold off making the call
should i call him?
2006-07-27 13:04:46 · 8 answers · asked by mervelash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For God's sakes!! He is your ex, move on with your life and find another guy. Call him and ask him why he keeps rescheduling!!!
2006-07-27 13:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Joueur De Saxphone♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you should just move on and not call or hang out with each other. Totally cut each other off. Your obviously not over him not good, cause it doesnt look like he wants to be with you either.
Do you call him 50 times a day, or a lot?
maybe you should ask him, confront him.....
if you call and he doesnt pick up or call back within a day. Write him an email...stating the facts, how you feel and what you want and perhaps asking the questions you want to ask...Tell him that you won't call him or write again, and that he can answer with full honesty and frankness. and you wont bother him...and also politely ask that if he doesnt want to answer or talk just to say so....
so call him ONCE> and leave a short and nice message..this is ( your nae) call me.
2006-07-27 13:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by SEXY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My honest opinion is he is making plans and then seeing if something better comes along. If it does, then he cancels with you, his backup, and plus he knows that you will put up with it, so he's not trippin.
Don't call him, don't be available to him. Or else he will take advantage of that and keep treating you like crap. You deserve better girl.
2006-07-27 13:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Keep yourself busy. It will make the wait easier. If you allow him to walk all over you ... he will and he will also NOT respect you. If you really want to stay in contact with him respect yourself enough to not allow him to control everything. He'll appreciate it in the long run also.
2006-07-27 13:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with the other posters: don't call him. He's your ex; he doesn't get to mess you around and play games any more. I know you miss him but if you don't let him go he will mess you around forever. B
2006-07-27 13:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call. If you do you are letting him know that you accept how he is treating you and that you will continue to be treated like that in the future. Don't call. Stay busy.
2006-07-27 13:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you for a standby in case nothing else comes up. Get on with your life and forget about him.
2006-07-27 13:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell naw.
dont be naive or play his silly games. he has your number.
always remember, dont make someone a priority that makes you an option.
2006-07-27 13:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. DeVine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋