2006-07-27 13:03:21 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe most people cheat their spouse in one way or the other, but try not to go over board like "adultery".
2006-07-27 13:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is one of the cruelest and most selfish things a person can do to their spouse. If you don't believe in the vows, a person shouldn't make them in the first place. That's also one of the reasons I too have an EX, because he thought it was ok to cheat. I say if you can't keep a promise, don't make it.
2006-07-27 20:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by arvecar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am ashamed to say that I have. But you have to understand the situation. I was married to a man who always told me that I could never leave him because no body would want me. I am an attractive person but he made me feel like I was worthless. I did not go looking to have an affair it just happened. Someone paid a little attention to me (something my husband did not) and I was happy to please him. Don't misunderstand me. My husband and I have since worked things out and it has been many years since it happened but he realized that if he wanted to be treated well, it had to go both ways. I would never wish this on anyone though because, not only did he catch me----he caught me naked. That was the worst thing that has ever happened to me in my life and I will be sorry till the day I die, but it made him wake up and see the other side of the picture.
2006-07-27 22:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by college@44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I went on for over a year. It wasn't that I didn't love my wife or didn't find her attractive anymore. It was the thrill of doing it, much like a drug. I am so very sorry that I ever made the wrong choice. It cost me my marriage and if I could do it all over again I would never had done it. If you are married, dont cheat.
2006-07-27 20:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by aaron c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated and dont ever plan on it. I dont believe in cheating no matter what the circumstances are.People use alcohol for an excuse for cheating but thats bull. and if ur unhappy then break up dont cheat
2006-07-27 20:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by jen1984ny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex cheated on me. Note I said EX
2006-07-27 20:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never did, had plenty of chances. Thought we were in this together. That's why I have an ex-wife. She thought she would get away with it.
2006-07-27 20:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately yes. But my AWESOME husband forgave me and I have and never will do it again. I'm so Lucky to have someone like him.
2006-07-27 20:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by goldenrose3497 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never cheated but i have thought about it
2006-07-27 20:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. DeVine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did. had a great time too. too bad she found out and filed for divorce. but it was great while it lasted.....definitely worth it
2006-07-27 20:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋