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How can it be without man/boy's consent or its brainwash...???

2006-07-27 12:55:42 · 23 answers · asked by littleboy 2 in Social Science Sociology

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I have never understood that... he would have to be hard right... that sounds like consent to me. Best wishes

2006-07-27 12:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by colorist 6 · 0 1

Well, it's quite possible in several ways.
1stly what may initiate as consenting sex may become non-consenting from the man's perspective but the woman may refuse to stop.
2ndly the use of sedative drugs. Who ever said that the male state is naturally erect is correct, when a penis is flaccid it is due to arterial muscular constriction (and so reducing blood flow) when the arterial walls relax it increases the aperture of the arteries. Viagra and other drugs in the same class (PDE-5 inhibitors) help this to happen, however the idea that viagra produces an erection isn't strictly true because sexual stimulation is still required. So in short, a sedated man can be abducted, restrained and abused.
3rdly, and actually most common (as far as i'm aware) is anal rape which is a very similar act to male/female rape, the only differences being that the woman (typically a steroid user) will use a strap on dildo to penetrate the victim. Rape is a very aggressive act, often opportunistic, very rarely with a premeditated victim and is driven by the need to demonstrate power.

Hope this is of some help.

2006-07-28 01:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mark E 2 · 1 0

A man is aroused by visual stimuli and it could be argued that just because a man is aroused doesn't mean he's consented. Who know's how many women victims start out aroused? It's hard to tell as women have admitted to being 'damp' but attributed it to other reasons like exercise. Likewise, even if she is aroused along the lines of the fantasy many women admit to, it's still not giving her consent and is rape in the fullest sense of the word.

Personally, I'd find it hard to bring a complaint of rape against a woman if I were aroused enough for her to succeed.
But we live in days of equality of the sexes and there are Undoubtedly there are a number of men who are 'punishing' those rabid feminists who have made life so difficult for previously quite contended and happy women, and any male who breathes, alike.

Unless a woman knocks a guy out or has him held down and then injects his appendage with something to bring it to the 'desired state', she's going to find it very very difficult to rape him unless there's a degree of collusion on the man's part. Ergo, any woman who claims to have raped many men is a prostitute providing special services or a dangerous, mentally ill criminal.

2006-07-27 19:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by stormsurfer_is_me 2 · 0 0

I think this applies to underage boys, and although the implication is that it is without consent, I think the theory is that the male is too young to understand the consequences, and the actual act, and is young and impressionable, much as the female in similar cases is deemed to be. But yeah, the difference is that a girl may be forced to have sexual intercourse, whilst this would be far more difficult as a female attempting to have her wicked way with an unwilling male, no matter what his age.

Is it rape if the guy's asleep and having an exciting dream though....? And I guess drugs etc... Yeah maybe it is possible.

2006-07-28 10:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by old_but_still_a_child 5 · 0 0

Just because you are aroused, that doesn't mean you give consent. A woman can still get wet and have an orgasm while getting raped, and that still is raped. Arousal is something rapists use to twist the minds of their victims, to shame them into thinking that they had it coming. It's sickening. Men do get raped by women.

2006-07-27 13:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

It's actually very common for a woman to experience arousal during a sexual attack...does that mean she consented?...men can experience it, too...arousal does not mean consent...no means no-whether you are a man and a woman!

The arousal during sexual abuse/rape is part of the mind trip. When privates are stimulated whether the person wants it or not, the body's natural reaction can be arousal.

2006-07-27 13:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by redfernkitty 3 · 1 0

I watched a film about this in uni.
apparently there is a spot on a mans penis that if touched will make him hard, even if he does not want to. Some men also get erections when they are scared, and some women rape men by putting things up there bums.

2006-07-28 01:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by jojitsui 4 · 0 0

Was once told of a robbery scene in an African country in which the armed thieves dispossed their victims and then procceded to rape the women. Thereafter, they repurtedly instructed them to pair up [male and female] and have sex with each other. Those who refused were immediately shot dead.... my point is this a man can get an erection under duress!! I believe a man can be raped!!

2006-07-27 21:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by floxy 3 · 0 0

I have been raped by a woman.

I was in a horrible relationship when I was quite young. It was my first girlfriend and when we moved in together she started to try and beat me up. It was a relationship that was dominated by her mood swings and temper. One night after her temper outburst and after she had held a pair of scissors to my neck when I told her I was leaving her, she became soft and appologetic. We were lying on the bed and she started to initiate sex. I tod her I didnt want to but she kept on. I became physically arroused but emotionally I was noit in the correct place for sex. I told her no but she initialted penatrative sex by climbing on top of me.

In my mind this was rape. Though I was physically arouse I was mentally/emotionally and verbally saying no, however with the hold she had over me at that point due to my inexperience and her bullying she won.

Needless to say I did not even consider putting in a complaint and happily that relationship ended a long time ago.

2006-07-28 02:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Actually there are many documented cases of it. You can find them on google news if you want specifics.

An erection is actually the bodies natural state. It takes an active signal from the brain to prevent it.

In cases of extreme fear, or physical stimulation, a man can get one without wanting to.

It is probably also conceivable that a women could slip a man viagra.

2006-07-27 12:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

The definition for rape requires penetration of the victim. (In most countries and states that is vaginal penetration) So a man cannot be raped.
Countries that have made rape of men a crime, requires anal penetration or sodomy to take place.

In all instances the VICTIM is being penetrated.

2006-07-27 19:21:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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