What do you do if you are bi-curious?

Question

WHAT DO YOU DO IF YOU ARE BI CURIOUS BUT ARE ALREADY IN A STRAIGHT RELATIONSHIP? (WOMAN MARRIED TO A MAN) DO YOU ACT ON IT OR LEAVE IT ALONE? (REFERINNG TO FEMALE WITH FEMALE)

I have taked to hubby about it and hes cool but i dont want him being with that woman if I do decide to act on it. He says he doesnt consider it cheating if I hook up with a female.

Answer 1

Sorry to say, but your too late to act on it...you should of acted on it before you got married...but talk to your husband...tell him how you feel, and that you love him (hopefully you still do) and go from there...

Answer 2

Don't really know, but I heard this would ruin your existing relationship for some reason. Or that is what my GF always told me when I asked if we could try sex with another woman. She loved to tease me about though. She would then come back with "Sure, if we can try sex with another man too" That kinda killed it for me right there.

If you are set on trying this, chances are your husband would do back flips to help you on your path of sexual exploration with another woman...95% of hetero men fantasize about three somes. I know I do.

Both you and your husband would have to be aware that it would quite possibly end your marriage after some time. Kind of depends on you two I suppose. Maybe rent that movie Kinsey first.

Answer 3

The problem is not that you're bi-curious. The problem is that you are married. You cannot pursue a physical relationship while you are married (unless you have an open marrage). If you love your husband, you must remain loyal to him and avoid physical relationships with both men and women.

Answer 4

If you are bi curious you can start by letting another female eat you out. After that I dont really know what you are suppose to do I haven't gotten any further.LOL But that part is fun!!!!

Answer 5

I dont care if he considers it not cheating if its someone in your own family, your still having sexual relations with someone eles besides him so it will be an affair weather you like it or not. I suggest you leave it alone because if he doesnt care then maybe he might try and mess with her and use it against you for bringing the girl in ya'll relationship. but if you feel confortable with doing it. Go for it!!
good luck!

Answer 6

I say you go for it! Being curious is only going to drive you crazy. After you check it out and if you like it then maybe if you like sharing then your hubby could join in on the fun, but I would not tell him if I was you!

Answer 7

You know it's funny you ask. I've been curious for years and just haven't ever pursued it. I'm married too. To a man of course. I mean as long as you just wanna try it and don't think you would like it too much as to where you would leave your husband for another woman, I think you should try it. You should experience it. Me and my husband have actually talked about it and he is totally cool about me just trying it once. Just try it. I've actually just recently pursued it too. So good luck :)

Answer 8

I'm bi and have been for 'bout two years-go ahead ask your husband if he would like to try a threesome---you don't want to do it without hi-that's just trouble waiting to happen. lol not good. But if you really want to know more about the feeling, just go ahead and ask him. Most guys are usually up to that. hehe

Answer 9

Have you spoken with your husband about it? Most husbands would be all about helping you out in that arena. If he's not, then that means that he would be just as upset if you "cheated" on him with a woman as with a man. Talk to your husband. See where it can lead you.

Answer 10

You might try asking your steady partner if you can add a female to the mix one night or so as you are curious about female on female sex. You might be surprised by his answer.( or not)