He asked me out on AIM, because he couldn't do it in person. He also told me his password to his SN, and I noticed I'm the only girl blocked. I have 2 SN's, and both of them have been blocked all summer, even before that. He also made up an invisible girlfriend before me. I noticed one time when I was invisible on AIM, he had an away message with her name in it. She doesn't even exist, so I don't know who he's trying to fool, because everyone else caught on and found out she wasn't real, because he brought in a picture of a model, and lied saying that's her. Whenever he wanted to buy something, he wouldn't have money, and he'd always want me to bring in stuff like my camera, snacks, etc. and he borrows my stuff but doesn't want me borrowing his, wants me to do him favors, but doesn't really want to do me any, blocks me, only talks to be every 7-9 days, and wanted me to skip class all the time so I could talk to him during HIS lunch, he wouldn't skip for me. Should we be together?
2006-07-27 12:17:33 · 24 answers · asked by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This guy sounds like a MAJOR LOSER. Making up girlfriends? You're buying him things, loaning him your stuff, and all in all allowing yourself to be treated this way?
You deserve much more than that...
You can be miserable all by yourself, you don't need help from this idiot. Dump him! Best of luck...
2006-07-27 12:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sahara 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all if you stop and read your own question...........You answered it yourself.
I don't know how old you are and it really doesn't matter.
If the guy is lying to you, using you, getting you to do things that you know are not right. ( skipping school, etc) making up imaginary girlfriends..........Then yall are not a couple. He is not a boyfriend....
He is a user and will continue to use you for his own benefits as long as you allow it to happen.
Don't be a doormat for a creep like that. Have some self respect.
Dump the creep and find yourself a boyfriend who will respect you, and pay attention to you.
2006-07-27 12:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i say Hell yeah u need to dump him. But if you dont want to then you need to have a serious conversation with your boyfriend and ask him if he is at all serious about your relationship together, but dont lead him on to that you are not feeling good about the relationship. Has your boyfriend ever done anything romantic for you if he has then that might show that he still cares.
2006-07-27 12:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by baby gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you and you think that your boyfriend is cheating on you. Do you have any friends that he doesn't know about. Try to set them up and see if he cheating on you. I know this sounds cheesy, but works in many ways. Never happen to me but I have seen my friends do it before. If he is not cheating than your just in luck with thinking wrong. All can say if go by your heart and listen to it. Your heart will guide you what is right. You may not agree with your heart, but should follow your heart. You heart will keep less painful in the future.
2006-07-27 12:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all gurlfriend you seem a little obssesed with your man....now it's ok to a certain point but mabe you need to cool it down a bit and talk to him one on one and dont invite your friends or his friends into the equation....because I learned that the hard way and lost someone. If you love your man then you will share what you feel with him and if your man loves you then he will keep it real with you. Try not to stress gurl because as women we tend to stress over our men and lots of times they arent stressing over us...try going out with your friends and enjoy life the best you can untill that man of yours wakes up and smells the coffe!!!Know I'm not saying go out there and start turning tricks but I am saying if he doesn't know what he has then it is YOUR job to show him what he has and what he wont if he doesn't get his act together...show him what a women is made of....show him your WORTH...A WOMEN'S WORTH. If he wont listen to you gurl then leave that clown in the dust because there are other fish in the sea and you can do bad all by yourself!!!!!Tell that man what you are feeling and if he loves you he will change his acts but if he doesn't you go out there and get yourself a man who cares!!! 1 more thing if that man of your loved you then why would he want you to skip class and not do it for you!!!A man is not worth your education!!!Get yours and tell him what he can kiss if you get my drift.....Your to good for him
2006-07-27 12:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
merely recognize that some day someone will damage your ex notably undesirable as countless the time "what comes round is going round". For you.... do not decrease your self to his criteria with suggestions from kicking him in the nuts. merely attempt to get over it and recognize that no longer each and every guy is an identical! i recognize it is going to take you rather a at the same time as because it ought to damage you notably undesirable, yet save your head up lady. something better will come alongside in some unspecified time sooner or later! sturdy success!
2016-11-26 19:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that this guys just using you..he has you on block that should have giving you the hints that he is an azzhole and just using you . if hes gonna make up women to make you jealouse or something he s not worthy of you.. move on quickly . the sooner the better.
if u need someone to talk to contact me we can chat !!!
hope i could help
2006-07-27 12:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You write all that and then ask "should we be together"...what do you think? If one of your friends told you the story you told us, what would you say to them?
He was never a boyfriend to begin with from the sound of it...move on...
2006-07-27 12:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this, right? You just want to see it written by someone else. It's all within you.
2006-07-27 12:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by crystal iceberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm....srry he sounds like a real weirdo. ya, dump him and move on. personally i think that sumone like that could very well be cheating on you or sumthing worse. you can do soo much better!
good luck
2006-07-27 12:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋