What would you do?

Question

ok heres the story
theres this guy named "jarell" that i known for about 4 years now, are really good friends and keep in touch, we've had a relationship with eachother twice, but it was always the wrong time for him.......
he has this friend named "jamel" that i also have known for 4 years,jarell and him have been friends for a long time, im friends with him too but we dont really keep in touch....3 days ago me and him started talkin on the phone and now we are really good friends......i had told him that i always did kind of like him but i didnt ever think about goin wit him cuz i didnt think he liked me like that, come to find out he always did like me too. this weekend we are goin to the movies as a lil date, and he wants a relationship with me.....i do wanna go with him but he's good friends with the other guy i talked about earlier....
( i don tkno if all that made sense to u )
anyway....my question is
would it be wrong if i went out with jarells friend?

Answer 1

WHAT!?! this question was way too long.

Answer 2

If it's alwayz the wrong time for Jarell it doesn't mean you have to wait for him.
You should definitly go for Jamell since ya'll seem to have a good relationship with each other.
But make sure you talk to Jarell and tell him that you hope there's no conflict! Also, make sure you dont 'lose' friends because of Jarell.
Well, that's my advice, hope it's the best one
Playa!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

jarell and jamel should start a boy band. Those names are perfect.

You should manage them, then you get to be around both of them all the time.

Answer 4

if it never really worked out with jarell then i dont see y it would b really wrong. at first he might feel neglected or something but if u have feelings for jamel, then go 4 it.

Answer 5

well u should really talk to jarrell. ask him if its ok and it wouldnt upset him. a relationship isnt worth loosing a friendship over. consider this, if jarrel is unconfortable with this and u do get into a relationship with jamel, it will all seem good for a while, but what about if u break up? then there is a chance that u and jamel will loose ur friendship as well. try talking to them.

Answer 6

so ur asking if it'd be wrong to go with jamel? i'd say....pray for God's will to be done on ur situation and then ask jarell if it would be ok, or if u went w/his freind, would it damage ur friendship. dont do anything that would damage ur friendship, though. thats the important thing. i hope everything works out 4 ya!
God bless you.

Answer 7

No, it woudn't be wrong if you went with Jarells friend...he took too long and it was never the right time for him, and he can't just expect you sit around and wait for it to be the right time.

Answer 8

well Jerell's had his chance. But it could still be pretty awkward for everyone, including yourself.You're risking your relationships with both Jarrell and Jamel by going out with Jamel, so unless you think that becoming closer with Jamel is worth risking all that, I would say don't go for it. Unless you really think Jamel could be Mr. Right or something...ya'kno?

Answer 9

no jarell shouldn't get mad at you if you go wit jamel cause ya'll are over so you should be able to be happy with jamel. its not wrong at all if jarell gets mad at you then you tell him to take it up with me!!

Answer 10

I do not think so. There is nothing wrong with going to movies with a friend. If I were you I would keep it as just friends. It sounds like he is just gonna play the field with you. Well best of luck and hope ya make the best choice...

Answer 11

I don't see a problem with it at all as long as there is not still something going on between you and Jarrell. Just be upfront with him and let him know before he finds out from someone else. As long as you don't act like you are hiding something you are doing nothing wrong! Go for it girl!