Cancer and Cancer?

Question

Alrighty, My past three long term relationshipos have been with cancers and i am a cancer as well. The first two didnt work out and i am wondering if anyone thinks that it could have something to do with us being way too much a like, you konwt he mood swings and all that.

Answer 1

Cancers are very moody,aren't we?Two cancers in a relationship will be hard work. The moon will change your moods at the same time ,so you will both be having a hard time with the other.We are also very giving ,but really don't know how to receive.You can make it with both of you working hard.Remember though if it's more work than fun then time to let it go.Also go to google and search for Zodiac signs

Answer 2

Both of these individuals have a good memory and the cause of their disagreements keep coming up time after time, as neither is of a forgiving and forgetting nature. The both of them, being romantics with domestic and sensitive characteristics, should find this to be a good basis for a happy relationship. The trouble in this case is that of excessive sensitivity which can lead them into trouble.

They both take words and actions to be literal truths and that can mean some consistent pain and unrest for them. They tend to see themselves as martyrs, vastly giving individuals, and when one does not see this in the other then the reaction is shock. They will waste a lot of time together, better spent on other things, in the middle of petty bickering and dredging up the past mistakes of the other.

If they can act and react in a more positive, mature manner, they will see just how much they really have together to be grateful for. After their arguments they are quick to reconcile. Both partners are so complex and emotional, they will have a hard time viewing life with a more realistic eye and consequentially, their life together never quite lives up to the expectations of the other.

The intricate feelings of Cancer with Cancer could cause trouble sexually because their desires rarely coincide with the others feelings. Each will expect the other to adapt and this can bring on more trouble.

Answer 3

Romantic Compatibility

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Cancer & Cancer

When two Cancerians come together in a love affair, a loving and yet very emotional domestic relationship ensues. A Cancer-Cancer match makes for a deeply devoted duo, endlessly loyal to one another. Both will learn the ins-and-outs of their partner, the best ways to heat each other up or, if necessary, to cool one another down. Both will also find great comfort and satisfaction in their underlying commitment to one another. This couple is faithful and caring, helpful and sympathetic of individual needs and very oriented toward making a home and creating a sense of family -- especially when they can get over their brooding, manipulative and self-pitying habits. If they can find a way to keep their fluid and moody emotions in check, this relationship will nurture both lovers.

A Cancer's place is in the home. Once safely entrenched in their personal sanctuary, the moody Crab may forget about the world outside, not paying mind to the opinions of others, only concerned with what's going on behind their own closed doors. This attitude carries over into relationships: Like their cherished possessions and material comforts, Cancer never hesitates to defend a loved one if threatened. This devotion and willingness to fight and toil for the survival and success of their relationships are really a Crab's greatest contributions to the game of love. It's no wonder Cancer's symbol is the 'crabby' scuttling Crab, for outbursts and flare-ups are common with this emotional crustacean. While their mood swings may injure each other's feelings, it's a Cancer's subtle mastery of the fine art of emotional manipulation that one should watch out for.

The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and this Sign is sensitive to the moods that ebb and flow with the Moon's monthly cycles. The Moon, the maternal orb of the heavens, is the celestial force behind Cancer's great maternal and care-giving nature. The energy of this instinct creates a warm, secure home environment, a perfect love nest for the growing and cultivation of a healthy relationship.

Cancer is a Water Sign. Instinct and emotion drive this relationship. With these deep, intense intuitive powers comes a fragility, as Cancer's feelings are brittle and easily hurt. Hence, that Crabby shell in which they hide themselves when frightened or overwhelmed. So often retreating to their shells can put a strain on any relationship with a Cancer, but two Crabs together will hopefully be perceptive of each other's needs for personal space and temporary time-outs. The key is realizing that it's not a personal slight if one of these Cancers wants some alone-time. This Watery element of their nature can protect them and their loved ones from the harsh realities of the outside world.

Cancer is a Cardinal Sign. Though not the most physically active of the Signs, a Cancer's quick emotional reflexes and powers of perception offer an alternate line of defense under stress. The Crab is not shy about getting exactly what they want from their partner. The protecting feral beast within is the first emotional element to leap forward under stress or a threat to the pack. However, these bursts of emotion may overwhelm a Cancer and crush their tender feelings. Fierce loyalty binds this Cancer-Cancer love match, but it can also threaten its very existence. Both partners must always strive to see things from their lover's point of view as well as their own.

What's the best thing about the Cancer-Cancer love match? Their utter devotion to enriching their commitment and the strong emotional bond between them. Together, this pair will protect one another and keep their love safe from the outside world, as well as work toward creating a happy domestic life and nurturing a loving family.

Answer 4

i understand as a fellow cancer myself 7/17. Look dont blame the relationships failure on a sign every one is similar and different at the same time but you like most cancers cant take to have someone around just like you its overwhelming and overbearing. Chill out for awhile on the crabs and venture else where we make good friends to each other lovers ah not sure about. remember opposites do attract

Answer 5

I am a cancer who had a 2 boyfriends that were cancers and let me tell you, we were too much alike that we will bump heads. We tend to be moody and when you put 2 moody people it just does not work out. If you look it up in astrology books it will tell you that Cancer and Cancer don't make a match.

Answer 6

THE HOROSCOPE THING IF GREAT FUN AND INTERESTING TO ME BUT I NEVER USE THE SIGNS TO GUIDE MY LIFE. EVEN IF GOOD OR BAD THINGS HAPPEN A LOT. IF THE STARS HAVE SUCH A GREAT HOLD ON YOUR LIFE WHY BOTHER TO MAKE A DECISION. JUST SIT AROUND AND LET A 'STAR' GIVE YOU A CALL AND TELL YOU WHAT TO DO. I GUESS I FEEL THAT SOMETIMES A FAILURE IS JUST A FAILURE...

Answer 7

Your signs are in a conjunction (0° aspect) by sign. But we would need to determine if they were by degree as well. We would need full birth data for both people to calculate that. Place, date and exact times.

If they are conjunction by degree than here's an interpretation:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_sun_aspects.html

Sun conjunct Sun in synastry:

Your overall characteristics and energy levels are very similar. You strongly identify with each other and are very much alike in important ways. It is easy for you to be together because you do not have to explain yourselves to one another. An innate appreciation and understanding of one another's essence exists between you, and this is vitalizing and ego-affirming for both of you. However, you share the same flaws and weaknesses as well as the positive qualities, and you may find it difficult to be with someone who so clearly exhibits the very things you like least about yourself. The more you accept yourself, the more beneficial and delightful your relationship with one another is.

You must look to the whole chart to see what type of people you are attracted to not just your own sun sign and the other person's sun sign.

The 1st house is you, your personality and appearance..
The 5th house rules love affairs.
The 7th house rules partnerships.
The 8th house rules sexuality.

What planets are in the above houses and what aspects do they make? What signs are those planets in? What sign is on the cusp of those houses? What elements (fire, earth, air & water) and qualities (cardinal, fixed & mutuable) are involved?

For a female's chart you can look to the Sun and Mars and their aspects for what types of males they are attracted to.

For a male's chart you and look to the Moon and Venus and their aspects for what types of females they are attracted to.

Ideal Man for a Woman
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

Ideal Woman for a Man
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealwomanforaman.html

Any sign can be with any other sign. It all depends on your whole chart, based on your DATE, PLACE, EXACT TIME of birth, not just your Sun signs.

Your whole chart then is then compared to the other person's whole chart using a technique called Synastry.

The aspects between each other's planets and points must be looked at and interpreted. The planets in each others houses must be looked at and interpreted, both ways. Affinities must be looked for. It's not simple to a layperson, but it is to people who are educated in Astrology terminology.

Sun sign horoscopes are absolutely inaccurate to determine compatibility between two people.

More info:

Synastry link:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html

Affinity link:

http://www.thezodiac.com/room.htm

Answer 8

When two Cancerians come together in a love affair, a loving and yet very emotional domestic relationship ensues. A Cancer-Cancer match makes for a deeply devoted duo, endlessly loyal to one another. Both will learn the ins-and-outs of their partner, the best ways to heat each other up or, if necessary, to cool one another down. Both will also find great comfort and satisfaction in their underlying commitment to one another. This couple is faithful and caring, helpful and sympathetic of individual needs and very oriented toward making a home and creating a sense of family -- especially when they can get over their brooding, manipulative and self-pitying habits. If they can find a way to keep their fluid and moody emotions in check, this relationship will nurture both lovers.

A Cancer's place is in the home. Once safely entrenched in their personal sanctuary, the moody Crab may forget about the world outside, not paying mind to the opinions of others, only concerned with what's going on behind their own closed doors. This attitude carries over into relationships: Like their cherished possessions and material comforts, Cancer never hesitates to defend a loved one if threatened. This devotion and willingness to fight and toil for the survival and success of their relationships are really a Crab's greatest contributions to the game of love. It's no wonder Cancer's symbol is the 'crabby' scuttling Crab, for outbursts and flare-ups are common with this emotional crustacean. While their mood swings may injure each other's feelings, it's a Cancer's subtle mastery of the fine art of emotional manipulation that one should watch out for.

The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and this Sign is sensitive to the moods that ebb and flow with the Moon's monthly cycles. The Moon, the maternal orb of the heavens, is the celestial force behind Cancer's great maternal and care-giving nature. The energy of this instinct creates a warm, secure home environment, a perfect love nest for the growing and cultivation of a healthy relationship.

Cancer is a Water Sign. Instinct and emotion drive this relationship. With these deep, intense intuitive powers comes a fragility, as Cancer's feelings are brittle and easily hurt. Hence, that Crabby shell in which they hide themselves when frightened or overwhelmed. So often retreating to their shells can put a strain on any relationship with a Cancer, but two Crabs together will hopefully be perceptive of each other's needs for personal space and temporary time-outs. The key is realizing that it's not a personal slight if one of these Cancers wants some alone-time. This Watery element of their nature can protect them and their loved ones from the harsh realities of the outside world.

Cancer is a Cardinal Sign. Though not the most physically active of the Signs, a Cancer's quick emotional reflexes and powers of perception offer an alternate line of defense under stress. The Crab is not shy about getting exactly what they want from their partner. The protecting feral beast within is the first emotional element to leap forward under stress or a threat to the pack. However, these bursts of emotion may overwhelm a Cancer and crush their tender feelings. Fierce loyalty binds this Cancer-Cancer love match, but it can also threaten its very existence. Both partners must always strive to see things from their lover's point of view as well as their own.

What's the best thing about the Cancer-Cancer love match? Their utter devotion to enriching their commitment and the strong emotional bond between them. Together, this pair will protect one another and keep their love safe from the outside world, as well as work toward creating a happy domestic life and nurturing a loving family.

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When two Crabs come out of their shells and size each other up, an emotional tidal wave is unleashed. Tidal waves generate massive amounts of energy, but are usually short-lived, leaving a trail of devastation in their wake.

Cancer the Crab is a Water Sign, so both of you are deeply emotional and sensitive, almost to the point of being psychic. You are so sensitive in fact that you have learned to build a tough shell around your tender heart, for protection. This is part of the symbolism of the Crab, along with the tendency to sidle around a problem, rather than face it head-on. As a lover you seek security and fidelity, and, although you are not above a few flirtatious peccadillos of your own, you can be deeply wounded if the one you care for betrays your trust. Cancer is poetic and romantic, but also practical in matters to do with the home and raising a family. Cancer is reassuringly protective, even possessive, but can be a jealous lover, though more from insecurity than simple desire to dominate.

Your vein of sexuality runs deep, but follows a path strewn with obstacles, often of your own making. Ruled by the Moon, you tend to flow with the tides and are very reflective of your environment.Opening the floodgates of emotion to a fellow soul is an enormous relief, but this can often lead to a serious problem as time goes on. Sensitive Cancerians under pressure can retreat within themselves and allow repressed emotions to bottle up until they either explode with devastating force, or implode catastrophically, causing general meltdown.

The fluctuating Moon can reflect a moodiness in your nature that is not always understood nor appreciated, even by another Crab, especially when you allow irrational emotions to rule your otherwise sensible head. The problem is this: when one Cancer is on an emotional high, so is the other. This is fine, isn't it..? But what about when both Crabs are have a bad dose of the moody blues and are both crawling dismally along the bottom of a very muddy pond? You have a lot in common, and that's the trouble. You understand each other perfectly and can wound each other without even trying. Both are too sensitive, too demanding, too dependent. Cancer needs the sinuous flirtatious worship of the Fish, or the slinky, supportive sexuality of the Scorpion, not the agonising nippers of a fellow Crab. Enjoy it while it lasts, but don't become co-dependent. Unless you have fabulous Moon and Ascendant connections, look elsewhere for love.

Answer 9

Both of you are very sensitive, sympathetic and emotional, with moods that shift and change like the tides. Though you may hide behind a shall of equanimity or indifference, you are really very easily hurt and take almost everything personally. You both have deep feelings for, and sentimental attachments to, the past, your home and family, or anything or anyone you once had a close affiliation with (school, home town, friends, etc.). If your backgrounds are very different, this may be more of a problem for you both than it would be to other people, because your identification with your origins is so strong.

Both of you need to be needed, and desire a very close, secure, loving and protective relationship. Family or domesticity is extremely important to you. Because of your empathy for one another, and your similar temperaments, you blend quite well together.

A sympathetic rapport exists between you which enables you to understand one another's feelings, needs, insecurities, and inner life very well.

Both of you have a deep need for nurturing relationships, for a sense of family and belonging, and a strong home base. You become very dependent on loved ones for a sense of security and you often smother the people you care about. you have a strong desire to mother or be mothered by your mate.

Because you are so sensitive, moody, and easily hurt, some people find you difficult to live with, but you find one another quite understanding.

A few problems may arise however. One is that you may reinforce one another's dependencies and weaknesses by babying one another too much, or by clinging to one another when one or both of you really needs to branch out in order to grow. Also, what happens when both of you are feeling vulnerable and needy and want to be babied at the same time? Who will do the parenting? At such times you may both act very childish, like "spoiled brats" in fact!

Although you both strive to be responsible, respectful, and dedicated to each other, there is a strong tendency for this relationship to focus TOO MUCH on responsibilities and commitments. Cancer is likely to feel unjustly criticised, frustrated by Cancer's moral and ethical attitudes, and eventually resent the limitations and responsibilities imposed by this relationship. Emotional distance, coolness, indifference to feelings, and a sense of loneliness or oppression can develop between you. To make this relationship work, you both must avoid the tendency to let your sense of responsibility and concern for the other person cause you to try to control your partner's life.

This relationship is not an easy one! There is a sense of responsibility towards each other that may incline you to marry or form some kind of long-lasting commitment to each other. But although the union is likely to be long-lasting, it is also likely to have more than its fair share of frustrations and difficulties. At times you both feel emotionally constrained and inhibited by being together, and this relationship may feel like a form of imprisonment! or need to dominate Cancer's life. Cancer's emotional needs and feelings are ignored and neglected at times, leaving Cancer feeling alone in this relationship. Most likely there is too much emphasis on responsibilities and obligations and not enough attention given to the needs for acceptance and tenderness. The serious tone of the relationship also stifles play and light-hearted fun-loving activities. This relationship may endure even when your feelings towards one another have cooled because there is a great deal of security in it, even if there is little satisfaction over time.

The passionate, deliciously amorous feelings you arouse in one another initially are destined always to be an important "glue" in your relationship. This powerful drive you feel toward one another will be hard to ignore, and it is unlikely the two of you will ever be "just friends". No matter what you tell yourselves, the sexual energies between you are highly charged, and the love-desire quite intense. Your feelings for each other will always be "hot", and are unlikely to ever cool to indifference. However, if other aspects of your lives bring you into conflict, your animosity toward one another would become as hot-blooded and fierce as your love. You simply will never be lukewarm toward one another. Nevertheless, prospects for deep fulfilment – at least on the physical level – and sexual harmony are excellent. This is part of what draws you together, one of the purposes of your relationship.

Your style of sexual expression is very intense and exhilarating, wanting to produce, is always foremost in your mind. When you climax, you will burst together with considerable intensity.

Despite whatever joys and blessings this relationship holds for the two o you, it will also entail a lot of hard work. Patience, forbearance, the ability to continue despite obstacles and discouragement, and accepting the necessity of compromise and humility, will all be required of you. Facing the fact that there are some things you simply cannot do, a lessened sense of freedom, and a definite awareness of containment and boundaries are all a part of it. At times, it may all seem too difficult, tedious, and stifling. If either or both of you gives up too much for the other – as is definitely indicated – this can be a source of considerable blame and resentment. But accepting the bitter with the sweet is part of what your relationship is about.

Answer 10

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