Thank you to all the people who responded to my wuestion. It actually helped me alot i talked to my boyfriend. At first we got in to a argument but then he said that he had not realized it. i let him know how i felt and he actually lisened. He had told me before that i had raised my voice at his son and i let him know that, that had hurt me alot because i treat him like if he was my son. well things are geting better and he is working on it i hope it's not just for a while and then he will go back to the same thing again.
2006-07-27 11:04:53 · 4 answers · asked by Seci 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It takes 6 weeks to form or break a habit. The best relationships are never effortless - it takes both people wanting it enough and being willing to work things out. I hope your boyfriend will follow through and keep working at the relationship with you. Good luck.
2006-07-27 11:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mother Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never take over anyone's child ... It does make a big difference .. If u have a problem with the SON .. TALK TO UR BOYFRIEND .. u are not at an authority to make this desicion .. Even u are just a GLF... If it comes to a marriage, ur bf will have to agree if u will take a mother role to his son .. Right now you cannot FORCE a situation by rasing your voice becz u felt that u have the right to own a son if hes not yours. JUST KNOW that he has another MOTHER.. again, U need to be careful of what the son will think of you as a second mother, not a first mother.. SOrry but its a hard fact .. no matter how much u puit him in a position to get him straighten out .. again, u have no rights to contril the position with ur bf and his son for your reasons .. im glad that ur bf listened to you .. BUT U are totally WRONG!!!! Things wont be the same for the way you are . It will be very possible for him to leave you if u think u are in CHARGE of everything .. its NO GOOD! U CANNT FORCE HIM AND HIS SON TO UR ISSUES .. IM SORRY, but its TRUE .. things wont be the same for what you have done .. U cannot expect that u are ALWAYS right .. IM SAYING U ARE WRONG ... sorry!
2006-07-27 11:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by sunnya4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your actions and pursuit of a better way look to be paying dividends, always keep talking, keep bringing everyone together, use meal times to get everyone to put forward anything they feel is wrong, with everyone else eating it stops interuptions and gives a few seconds thinking before opening the mouth,stick with it
2006-07-27 11:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by sharky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep on talking and if he starts to raise his voice again then you will have to remind him
2006-07-27 11:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋