I want a guy to notice me as more than just his "sister", I know I'm not his type, he respects my personality but it's just not for him. Besides my past the only other thing I've hid from him was the ability to sing---so I want to know before I embarass myself would it even get his mind to consider the possibility of "us"?
Please help. I don't want to quit until I'm sure it will never happen...Ever.
2006-07-27 10:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by Psychia22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know you asked this question of males, but I couldn't resist, and maybe what I have to say will impress you. You see, I am a singer as well. I sing in Branson Missouri in shows here. Anyhow, I have managed to attract many males with my voice. Even those who have not seen me.
The thing is the very BEST thing to do, is admit that you have feelings for him... Tell him that you are thinking about him a lot and that you would like to spend more time with him to see if maybe there is a possibility for more between you and him. You will have a better chance with honesty than with singing, no matter how great you are...
BTW, keep singing, it is something that will set your soul free. It releases anger and stress... by all means share your voice, but only as a plus to who you are. It is not all you are made up of, and I am sure you have other great qualities, use them as well. Let him see who YOU are first.
Hope this helps and good luck...
2006-07-27 11:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Young Lady, the male that saw you as his sister, saw you as a FRIEND! You have or had a very valuable relationship with that person.
If you truly have a meaningful relationship with a person, you do not have to hide from them, what hurts is to find out things that you did hide. That says lack of trust, where there is no trust there defiantly is no love.
Music, if played by someone that can play music or sing, not just read and be technically correct, but can play/sing their story, express feelings about them, you, and life, is always beautiful and EVERYONE wants to listen to it. (Please notice that I did not use the word HEARS, I said LISTEN, there is a difference).
As for someone caring for YOU, all you have to do is go where you like to go, do what you like to do. Just be YOU, no special dress just be who you are. At the place where you go there will be other people there, that means they like the same places that you like. When you do what you like to do you will meet other people doing what you like to do.
Let people see and KNOW you, and you will meet people that care about YOU. Singing is beautiful, but I do not believe you can build a meaningful relationship from singing.
To live with another person and never turn angry because of their personal habits, the way they like to do things, the ins and outs of daily give and take requires more than singing, education, or money it takes really enjoying/loving the person that you are with.
You do not count how many times you were kissed before it is too many, or how many times you have sex together before it is too much or unfair. You only want to be what ever your partner needs and that is both ways. Only what the Ten Commandments demand, which are summed up in the two words, to love, can a relationship be substained. Break any one of the commandments and you will most surely break the relationship!
2006-07-27 11:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think so. My wife is an awesome singer, wins contests and everything, however with that comes a down side of being with someone who sings - they sing when your trying to listen to a song, as beautiful as her voice is, sometimes I just want to listen to the song. A beautiful voice unfortunatly wouldn't change my opinion of a female (although a bad voice may).
2006-07-27 11:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by timhda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No a singing voice would not affect my feelings for someone. I've often found it difficult in the past when a friend has sung because (even if they weren't bad) i never really know what to say and guys are not that good at giving complements.
2006-07-27 11:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your voice would have any thing to do with getting a guy I like My wife for who she is.
2006-07-27 11:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY I'M A SINGER AND EVEN THOUGH PEOPLE THINK OF US IN A SPECIAL WAY,I DON'T BELIEVE ANYONE HAS FALLIN IN LOVE WITH ME SOLELY FOR MY SINGING VOICE.(I HOPE NOT)
A VIRTUOUS WOMAN IS "HOT"
2006-07-27 11:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by tomio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just be friendly with him, He'll catch on.
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2006-07-27 11:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT CAN BE AN ATTRACTION BUT IF THE GIRL HAS A PERSONALITY OF A ROCK I WOULD HAVE TO SAY SEE YOU LATER
2006-07-27 11:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by mav1729 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep...
As a musician... I like that we can sing together.. and harmomize.
It is on the SHORT LIST... for me.
2006-07-27 11:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women are beautiful .
2006-07-27 11:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by Nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋