(I know NOT every woman behave in this way but most of the ones I know are.) I'm just wondering why...
whenever they see single younger women, they immediately start inquiring like a CIA why don't you marry already, why don't you have kids already, is there something wrong with you??
Most of them are catholic but some aren't. And most of them are unhappy with their marriage and life.
Once I even said: if you don't like your marriage life why are you so eager I get one myself? I got no answer.
So I was wondering, this happens to you and why do you think they react like this?
I know there some man who reacts in this manner, but generally speaking are women.
What do you think?
2006-07-27 10:52:27 · 9 answers · asked by cifurtrue 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I agree that that is the case! I am so glad somebody said that - but I think it is women of ALL ages. My husband and I just got married in August, and a few years ago all of our friends were getting married and at EVERY single wedding, we were hounded about when we were going to tie the knot - I don't get it! We always told them, when we feel like it! Now it is even worse because people have started hounding us about kids! Our 1 year anniversary is next month! JEEZ! I think many people are nosy, unhappy and miserable - married too soon and want somebody to share their mistakes. Good question!
2006-07-27 10:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by Fortune Favors the Brave 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am over forty five and feature been married over twenty years. I don't suppose hooked up to my partner and have not for a while. I am doing greater now than I used to be 6 years or so in the past. I believe facet of it's age and level of lifestyles. After years of elevating youngsters, and taking good care of the whole lot, even as he did not anything I eventually bought to the factor I had a few freedom and it used to be freeing. He bought clingy and possessive and does not wish me to have peers, speak to any one or do some thing that doesn't revolve round him. Everything is meant to be approximately him. There are plenty of matters I could love to get out and do, however I realize he could have a are compatible. If it's whatever he does not wish to do he does not wish me to do it. I just about suppose I could be happier on my own, however I do not believe he could ever depart me on my own.
2016-08-28 16:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by vandevanter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was getting divorced, my friend's mother, who had spent most of her life in a pretty unhappy marriage, asked me: "Is it better to be alone?" I think that certain women have an internal conflict, they have to justify their inability not to depend on a man, however awful their co-existence is, so they are just jealous and therefore resentful of young single sisters who are a direct support for the little voice in the head of those poor women saying: "yes, it is better to be alone than with whomever..."
2006-07-27 11:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Misery loves company...they want you to settle for a miserable relationship like they did. Some women are threatened by smart and independent single women. I think its because they don't have the guts to be single.
I think it is always better to live your own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody else's life with perfection!! Go live your life and ignore those jealous women!! ;0)
2006-08-01 14:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 55, and I never ask that. I don't really think its any of my business. I don't think women are so stupid they don't realize their child-bearing years are numbered. Its up to them to decide if and when to get married and if and when to have children. I wouldn't like it either if I was asked that question...I think its asked by people who don't know what else to talk about. Nowadays, marriage isn't a big deal anyway. Lots of people opt not to tie the knot legally, and would rather live common-law...who's business is that? Its called freedom of choice.
2006-07-27 11:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by renie51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Misery loves company. Your life may represent freedom to them and they may be jealous about it. Unfortunately, even our closest friends want us to be as unhappy as they are. This is especially true when someone wins a lottery jackpot. The winner many times finds him or herself shunned by people who they thought loved them.
2006-07-27 11:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by rico3151 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are probably aware that women have a clock. There is only so much time to have a baby. They are worried that you will be alone for the rest of your life.
2006-07-27 10:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by goose1077 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You meet some strange women, as the ones I deal with never act that way.
2006-07-27 10:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause they want to annoy you and make you ask useless questions.
2006-07-27 10:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋