Its around 15 days after her missing period. We did home pregnancy test & came positive. Heard its dangerous to abort the child & she might not be able to get pregnant again.. Plz advice me.. Anyone who's been there done that..
2006-07-27 10:52:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Keeping the child is not an option.. We have to abort.. She's an indian.. Strict family..
2006-07-27 11:14:47 · update #1
Having a child is not an option.. We have to abort.. She's an indian.. Strict family.. She can't even tell them she's pregnant..
2006-07-27 11:15:29 · update #2
You should put the child up for adoption to some loving parents. There is no need for abortion. There are many women who aren't able to have children themselves that would love to have a baby. Go to your locally planned pregnancy center to find out about adoption services.
2006-07-27 10:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Gong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried about the danger involved with an abortion, then you should be seriously worried about the danger involved in childbirth. Childbirth kills more women than abortion does. I haven't heard from any medical sources that abortions are especially dangerous, especially if they are done early one--the earlier, the better. You only hear about the dangers of abortions from pro-lifers, who conveniently forget to mention how much harder it is on the body to carry a fetus to term and then give birth. Not to mention the emotional damage having a baby only to give it up for adoption, which unless your baby's white and healthy isn't a guarantee. I suggest you hightail it over to a planned parenthood or similar clinic and discuss your options with medical personnel before making any permanent decision.
2006-07-27 18:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an abortion at 12 weeks. I'm not proud of this at all but due to circumstances, it had to be done. I was able to concieve after the abortion. Had no complications with it either. Just be very careful who you choose to do it. Choose a clinic that has been around a while. Talk to any friends that might have had this procedure done and see who they recommend. If you have a Planned Parenthood in your area, talk to them. They usually have good references as in where to go. Best of luck to you both.
2006-07-27 18:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by Antisocial 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should keep the baby. You didn't keep your pants on and now a consequence has put everything on hold, and if you do give the baby up for adoption you will regret it every day after that. Abortion shouldn't even be an option because in my view that is murder of an innocent child.
2006-07-27 18:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by kiwi_162004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in abortion ( My personal opinion). And there are risk factors in abortion. Have you thought about giving the baby up for adoption. There are many couples who can't have children that would be very happy to adopt the baby. If you are having a hard time deciding what to do, Go to planned Parent Hood or your local social services office. They can give you some go advise and referrals as to what is best for your situation.
2006-07-27 18:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An abortion is a personal decision and if you two choose to follow through with it, then do your research on the ways to abort and the clinic you choose.
This is a decision you will live with the rest of your life. I am not judging as I made a decision such as this in my life as well. I also have two beautiful daughters -- for me, AT THE TIME, it was the best decision.
Good luck.
2006-07-27 20:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by oscarboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's dangerous to have constant abortions, but one shouldn't hurt her. I know many girls who have had an abortion and are fine. I know one girl whose had 3 abortions, and then did have a child.
Go to your local planned parenthood and talk to them. They can give you advise on adoption versus abortion, if you dont have much income, they can prorate things for you, and help you guys figure out what is the best course of action (including telling parents, if you decide to do that.)
2006-07-27 18:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by AprilRocksIt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about it before having sex. Now it's time to step up to the plate, act like a man, and take on the responsibilities you now have. I'm writing this with my (now) wife and we have a daughter that wasn't planned either. She's 3 years old now and the best thing we almost didn't do!!!
2006-07-27 18:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by morganga1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, please don't abort this innocent child. There are so many family's who would LOVE to have this child if you don't want it.
Yes, there are risk's in abortion.
While giving a child up for adoption does have emotionally painful effects... women who have an abortion almost always later struggle with emotional issues. Don't take my word for it... do some research.
2006-07-27 18:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happend to my best friend. she felt she couldnt tell because of her ethincity. she ended up having the child event thought it was taboo. her parents got over it and now they are in love with their new grand-daughter. Dont abort the baby, you will never forgive yourselves. if worse comes to worse let your girlfriend/wife decide what she wants to do. i say dont tell the parents and move away and not tell them about the baby.
2006-07-27 18:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by celicagirl587 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋