Lesbians! Does it annoy you when straight men make a perversion out of lesbian love?

Question

Does it get on your nerves when straight men make the statement, "Can I watch??"

very good answers except for one....

Answer 1

I think all lesbians are annoyed by this to some degree.

Unfortunately, the existence of immature men in this world is just a fact of life, and one we cannot control.

What we CAN control in this life is who we choose to invest our time and energy in. There are plenty of good, mature straight men in the world, and one of them is my best friend.

My advice, ladies... don't write off a whole group of people just because of the deplorable behavior of the lowest members of that group. That's called discrimination, and we cannot afford to participate in it, especially if we expect others to not discriminate against us. Plus, you might just miss out on making a wonderful friend.

If a man shows you the disrespect of asking "can I watch?" or "are you maybe a LITTLE bit bi?" or any of the other old standbys, just walk away. Don't get angry, don't launch into a speech... save your energy for the relationships and people who matter to you.

I promise you'll be happier. :-)

Answer 2

i'm a gay male, not a lesbian, but it annoys me. a lot.

the reduction of a woman or of love between women to a straight male's sexual object makes me throw up. and for some reason, i've never met a straight male who understands this and who understands the problems that objectification has caused in our society.

and H2_Oasis, all your answer did was make straight males look like ignorant idiots. do you know why women were largely powerless for so long? because straight males saw women as nothing more than a sexual fantasy, just as, according to you, they see lesbians. combining the primitive "might makes right" attitude with the sexual objectification of females by straight males throughout history will give you a big hint as to why women are still fighting for their rights to this day.

and calling your father "pops" certainly didn't help your personal image.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

I'm bisexual, and it does annoy me when people make rude comments like that. There are so many immature men in this world. That's why I love my current boyfriend; he never once ever suggested a three-some! My ex-husband could never get it out of his head that just b/c Iike both girls and boys doesn't mean I am some kind of nymph freak show. I guess that's why he is an ex now! LOL

Answer 5

I used to get annoyed, now i make a joke out of it. In my experience most men have sex on the brain. I just tell them my g/f could beat them up, so they might not want to harass me.. or I say "really dude there's nothing to see that you haven't done if you are good to your woman".. that usually shuts them up. I laugh at them even more when i hear.. " you just haven't met the right guy yet" oh please.. But hello a woman is a s$%^ if she sleeps around looking for the "right" guy.. double standard much?SO to all the straight men with one track minds i say.. Stop it your boring me!

Answer 6

Yes it does bother me. My partner and I have this friend who we love to death but he has a creepy brother who makes this wise cracks when we are in the same room. Do an observation, it's usually creepy, greasy haired, uneducated straight men who make these remarks. Because I have straight guy friends who are very respectful towards my partner and I or other lez friends.

Answer 7

my Moms left my pops for a woman and He wasn't a jerk. I don't want to even see that chick at a BBQ or my birthday, I don't talk to my moms thing or whatever. After witnessing Mom peacing on Dad to be a Les at a young age I don't want sh** to do with yall. And I'm as straight as it gets. Real Life Oh and to most straight Males Lesbians aren't people they are actors in movies that are hid under the bed if you get me. Ne ways............ peace

Answer 8

If I'm having a bad day, I can really get annoyed by that. Usually I can just let it go, and say something like, "Never heard that one before!"

Answer 9

i just feel sorry for them. most guys that do have the fortune to be involved in lezbo sex feel unnecesssary and that is no good for sustaining an erection. then they just kind of sulk in the corner because women can go on forever. guys that ask have never been in that situation and have no idea how unimportant they would feel. have pity on them. the ignorant deserve it.

Answer 10

I am a true lesbian at heart I love all women.