Do u think I am a social reject?

Question

I dont really have best freinds just freinds. Does that mean i am not a people person

Answer 1

oh gosh honey, don't go thinking you're a reject just because you don't have best friends. friends cause way too much drama, seriously. my sister is in high school and everyone loves her, not because she is outgoing, but because she is herself, and quiet, and not annoying to be around. she has a bunch of friends, not just one.i think a best friend is nice to have, but a bunch of other friends who are there for you is a LOT better!

just be yourself!!!!!

Answer 2

Not necessarily. I don't have many friends either and my only best friend would be my brother. I live in a secluded area though and I don't require the constant companionship of people to be happy.

It depends on why you don't really have lots of friends or close friends. If you don't like people, than you're not really a people person. If you just don't mind being alone, it's a different matter.

Answer 3

lots of people dont have "best friends".

perhaps you are just introverted. meaning you are more stimulated by internal sources (your imagination, or inanimate objects like books or music).

extroverts are the socialites.

then there are the strange ones like me, i'm an extroverted introvert. (sounds complicated, it's not) while i easily slip into the socialite persona, i really prefer alone time. i have friends that i like talking to, even about personal issues (actually i am pretty much an open book, a stranger is easy for me to talk to) but i never value "hanging out" over alone time.

i was very popular in school, lots of friends, anywhere i go i can find someone to talk to and make friends with, but i'm just as comfortable going to a resturant by myself and reading a book while i eat.

maybe your are the oposite, you are a introverted extrovert, someone who wants that social contact, but is far to shy to go after it. whereas i find it easy to be social, but i dont often prefer to(not that THAT stops me. i make myself be social)

practice with family, or on the net talking to new people, you can learn to talk to anyone. everyone has this capability, whether they want to pursue it is up to them.

Answer 4

No, probaly not. Some people who have lots of friends can feel lonely. You will find your soul mate some day.
Are you close to your family? Because I have found that I am the same way but I have a very tight relationship with my husband, kids, inlaws and siblings. Are you counting them out?

Answer 5

no..it doesnt.. having a best friend doesnt mean you are a people person and vice versa. Remember you said that you have friends.. if you think you are a social reject, that means you dont have friends which contradicts what you just said that you have friends.

Answer 6

My favorite quote is "Friends help you move. Real Friends help you move a body."

You are not a reject, you are normal. Friendships must be 'fostered', like nurturing a plant or animal. They also come and go and get closer and more distant. Read the link.

Answer 7

No it doesn't Maybe you have a hard time getting to close to people or maybe they just don't understand you. Don't try to hard eventually you will find a friend that you connect with totally

Answer 8

Let me tell you about best friends , just when you think they are your Best Friend they try to steal your boyfriend so don't worry just be yourself and don't get too close to any one !

Answer 9

of course not, not every one has best friends, if you,ve got lots of friends then how can you be a social reject?

Answer 10

No best friends... well that sucks. But you are a girl, and girls dont really make friends with other girls easily.