how do you know when someone is having an affair????????
2006-07-27 09:55:11 · 11 answers · asked by tismyR 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
honestly, you just need to ask. Never act on assumptions. :) You would seriously regret it. :D
2006-07-27 09:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by diannabishop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a feeling (gut instinct), of which it seems that you already have. Soem other clues will be: him coming home late, not answering his phone, being defensive about you questioning him on things that he normally wouldn't react that way towards, him not answering his phone when it rings when he's around you, or going to another room to speak to someone very quickly and quietly when he does answer a call around you. You can be snoopy too, and check out creditcard bills or bank statements to see where he's spending money at. Or go through his phone, but that might be hard if he has a lock on it. If he does have some kind of lock on it, tell him that you need the code to see if his phone has a feature that might have something to do with a Christmas gift that he might be getting from you. And when it comes to christmas time and he still remembers, say that you couldn't find what you were looking for, or his wasn't the right model for it. I know, I'm so sneaky, but I was cheated on and know the tricks of the trade. Good Luck!
2006-07-27 10:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you know if a guy is having an affair is if he first starts to act differently towards you. Then he will start making up weird excuses so he doesn't have to hang out with you. Baby gurl just pay attention to all the subtle things he does.
2006-07-27 09:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by Shanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It starts with the gut, followed up by alittle snooping and verified with evidence...be careful for what your looking for...you just might find it.
2006-07-27 09:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we start makeing excuese to why we late whare we was and who we talking to on the phone by the way im a man so i know smile
2006-07-27 10:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you start to become second to them in sex. they change the way they talk to you or treat you in bed... good luck
2006-07-27 09:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by sassy_girl200501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they don't touch you the same way or if she/he takes a shower as soon as coming home.
2006-07-27 09:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gut instinct
2006-07-27 09:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by mamimia80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asked them
2006-07-27 09:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by hamcomat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u just ask them???
2006-07-27 09:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by *Neha.* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋