2006-07-27 09:46:32 · 6 answers · asked by Nancy W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all please accept my deepest sympathies. I've had friends and family members kill themselves and know too well the devastation it leaves behind.
I'll echo what everyone else has said, and I'll add that I'd like to encourage you to get not only psychological counseling but spiritual counseling as well. It can be so easy to get so mad at God for allowing things to happen, and we can too easily forget that His grace is offered to us if we will just accept it. I was suicidal in high school, 20 years ago, but I've also seen since that time how incredible God's peace can be. The links below list crisis-hotline numbers if you need them. Please drop me a line at chad@jesusfreak.com if I can help in any way. I'm praying for you.
2006-07-29 19:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Pastor Chad from JesusFreak.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some counseling, I have a good friend and her boyfriend commited suicide about 4 yrs. ago and she still has a hard time every once in a while but mainly because he killed him self 9 months after she had just had there baby. I say take some good "grief" Conseling and talk to family, Be Strong Girl!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-27 16:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Eli_Corona_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess there is no way to handle something like that:(. I'm sorry if it happened to you, I lost friends to suicide, and even thought of doing it myself,not long ago.Maybe the people here can help you:
http://www.suicideforum.com/index.php
I just joined(even though I'm not in crisis right now)
Try to find some kind of "grief counciling" in your area. You will never forget what happened, but eventually, you will be able to go on with yoour life.
2006-07-27 16:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a support network of people who are near and dear to you. They will always be there, the genuine friends and you can count on them to help you out with anything that is on your mind ,always.
Let others know that you need them for support too. Those that respect your sense of People and your sense of Trust will do that unconditionally too.
People make the real difference here. Their thoughts will answer many of your questions at times and that will always open another door to resolving the issues that were not in your control before.
2006-07-27 16:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god:-( I don't know. Talk to someone, call a grief counsellor or a crisis line, they are experienced and cann point you in the right direction. If this has happened to you, I'm so sorry:-(
2006-07-27 16:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Catherine n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surround yourself with people to support you,
2006-07-27 16:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋