this past weekend i let my cousin hang out with and my boyfriend. we were at a party and my cousin got real drunk!!! so we had to end up taking her home. so her mom gets mad at me 4 letting her get drunk when she was the one drinking. no one made her. so then the next day i cover for her while she goes and sees this guy that shes not suppose to see but doesnt get home til 4 in the morning. (not my fault) so then to cover her a$$ she tells on me that i was drinking and who i was with and where nd everything else. but she swears she didnt say nething. i dont know if i should believe her. i like hanging out with her but im not sure i can trust her.
2006-07-27 09:30:52 · 29 answers · asked by lizlatina69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont' think I would trust her. It sounds like it is perfectly ok to her that you cover for her and put your butt out on the line, but when it is time to return the favor she wusses out. She sounds kind of immature and selfish. Maybe it would be best to talk to her and tell her that you are angry with her and why. But one thing is for sure, she is family, so you will have to work something out between the two of you. Its not like she is a friend who you could just ditch after catching her in a lie....blood is thicker than water. So maybe the best thing to do is to find other friends to hang out with and stay away from her at least when going to parties because she will drag you in the middle of it everytime.
2006-07-27 09:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It sounds as if both of you are in need of discipline and some counselling. I take it from your question that you are both under age, so why is either one of you drinking?
And you have to ask yourself why, when your cousin already burned you, you should volunteer to cover for her, ever again? and why DID you cover again?
This has all the markers of a sado-masochistic relationship - with you the masochist, and your cousin inflicting psychic pain on you.
Just stop it. And get help.
2006-07-27 09:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound's like to me that your cousin does'nt respect u.when it's all good it's good but when she's in trouble your in trouble.is that really how u want to live your life,he said she said? have u ever heard the saying cut the snake off at the head.i know she's family but at some point in time u diserve honesty and respect.how would u feel if u were the one doing it to her.i say,treat people,friend's family ect;like the way u really want to be treated. Rico_Ramirez89
2006-07-27 09:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be truthful with her. If she can't cover for you, you shouldn't have to worry about covering her butt. You could still hang out together, just maybe not trust her with some things.
2006-07-27 09:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kayari of Midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because she is family, that doesn't mean she has your back. I don't want you to be a dumb young girl. Cut her loose when it comes to doing your dirt. sure go to the movies with her, to the mall, stuff like that but don't trust her with your most deep secrets. she is obviously a little envious of you because you seem to be a little smarter than she and she obviously will rat to the captain anything to get you in trouble. See she wasn't trying to save her own butt because it was already in trouble and its no use in getting someone else in trouble if they weren't indanger of it
2006-07-27 09:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by shidaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She set you up twice without blinking an eye! How can you even consider trusting her! She'll get you in even worse trouble if you let her. Stay away from her. I wouldn't trust her alone with your boy-friend either.
2006-07-27 09:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by SupergirlKK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her clearly, and well she's your cousin and everything, but she doesn't have any right get you in trouble.
Sorry to hear that. I been there.
But I think you should not hang out with her for a while.
2006-07-27 09:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Papayita :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely she was just covering her tail. Get over she's your cousin and if you like hanging with her get over it. So, cover yours too and tell everyone that she is covering her tail. Then act like she did, like you don't what the hell she's talking about.
2006-07-27 09:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by Irene A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer.
2006-07-27 09:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should limit your trust with her. I would be very careful with the things that I let her see, and the things that I let her hear when shes around.
2006-07-27 09:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋