well u could be bicurious as most of us are. be true to yourself and dont worry about what ppl say! laugh at their thunder and dance in their rain!
2006-07-27 09:33:06
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answered by luvmadukes 5
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1) You know when you know. Sorry to be vauge, but it is completely individually determined. I knew for sure about a month after I first had sex with a woman. My friend knew when she was 7. Sorry there are no easy answers. No strangers on a website can tell you, you have to figure it for yourself.
2) Most people I tell don't care. Most shrug or say "thats interesting" or "I never suspected, you look so straight". Some people ask ignorantly bizarre questions ("how do you have sex??" or "which one is the girl and which one is the boy?") or ask me what the gay community thinks of something (like I can speak for everyone). My mom told me that she thinks it is a phase, and that is irksome, but there isn't much I can do about it.
2006-07-27 17:06:55
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answered by dani_kin 6
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The easiest way to figure this out is to see to whom you're attracted. If you seem to like guys AND girls, you're bisexual. Of course, it isn't usually that simple. Do you prefer the physical aspects of one gender, but the general personality traits of the other (I don't mean to generalize here, a good example would be if you found girls hotter, but liked hanging around guys a lot more).
As to how people react, it depends on who you hang around with. Do you mean your parents? You can probably guess at that better than anyone here. Do you live in a very conservative/religious area? Then I'd suggest not telling anyone. However, bisexuality is currently fashionable with lots of kids nowadays, so you might end up well off.
2006-07-27 16:40:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Well let say this, what we see that is cool, well is it cool for you. Me I had to check that myself an found out that, well, girl are a turn off, Men talk to me about women, an it turn my stomach. I tell them that I'm not trying to sleep with her you can have her, all day an all night. When I tell a men about being with a men , they tell me why do you want to be with a men I don't. Well why would they describe a women body part to me. when I look in the mirror I don't see a men body parts. An a men cant tell me nothing about a female that I don't already know. Being looking at my body for a lot of yrs. So what do you thing do you want a body like another girl, or do you want to, be a men an have sex with one.
2006-07-27 16:43:42
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answered by ro101se101ma101ry 2
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if you like the same sex or gender as u but aslo like the oppisite sex or gender then u r bi like me tell your friends at the best time u think u should
2006-07-27 16:35:28
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answered by hothotme04 1
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You might not ever know. Took me many years to figure it out myself. I don't tell alot of my friends,figure it's none of their business who I sleep with,I don't ask them who they sleep with,and most don't ask me.
2006-07-27 21:41:20
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answered by dragonfly 4
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i ask myself the same thing...
i think that u will knw if u have a relationship with a woman...and if u have loved a man then u will feel the same intensity 4 that woman...
idk if that helps or if lesbians agree with me....but about wat ppl think...f*ck wat ppl think....love urself 4 who u r....and 4 sure others will love u
2006-07-27 23:57:33
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answered by Anonymous
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I'd think you were ok.
Will have to think about the other.
2006-07-27 16:32:29
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answered by lilithblackdragon 1
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well if u feel like u like yr opposite and same sex then u r bi, but dont relay on people of wut they think. just say its the way i feel and i dont care wut u think. go with urself not on yr friends
2006-07-27 16:52:01
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answered by Anonymous
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eww gross your bi
2006-07-28 13:06:38
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answered by S. Jarrett Warner 4
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