about boys i'm around boys alot (i prefer to hang with boys rather than girls) and my male family members always on my case asking questions like ' r u having sex'. when i'm on the phone with a guy they take the phone from me talk to they guy and if they dont like what they guy is saying they hang up on him. when i'm with a guy they pull me away from them, make me go in the house or try to embarass me. they are too over protective of ME they dont say anything to none of my cousins or sisters they just bother me about it. what should i do?? what is their problems?? how should i deal with this??
2006-07-27 09:20:37 · 7 answers · asked by JayKaira F 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
my dad is one of my relative who does this and my mom thinks that its going they're doing that but i dont think its fair because they dont do that to any other female relative
2006-07-27 09:30:03 · update #1
my cousins, uncles, and my dad does this... i know they're doing it out of love but thats just too much love
2006-07-27 09:32:03 · update #2
It is time for your parents to get involved with this. They are going over their boundries as brothers. You need to tell your parents about what they are doing and how they are embarrassing you and your friends. This is childish behavior that should not be tolerated. I don't see it a being protective at all. They are bothering you and they need to back off and let you live, without the harrassment.
Call a family meeting today!
2006-07-27 09:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to that person who said to run away, my father is protective and my sister ran away and ended up being raped while living on the streets and now she has a baby and doesn't know who or where the father is, some people are just ignorant! But what you should do is talk to them, and tell them you are becoming a young woman and although it is a good thing that they care so much, they just need to back off and give you your space. Tell them you are responsible enough to have friendly relationships with guys without sex being apart of it. Explain that you are not a child anymore, you understand the repercussions of sex and the emotional baggage that comes with it. Hopefully they will understand, I hope I have helped you in some way.
2006-07-27 09:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by lovely_lady_212625 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAAAAAAY too many characters yet here is going... family individuals a million: Father - Alistair mom - Celeste Son 22 - Toby Daughter 19 - Luna Triplets - Jamie, Harvey and Gabriella Daughter 14 - Delilah family individuals 2: Father - Stan mom - Angeline Daughter 21 - Kyla Daughter 19 - Amber Twins - Nathan and Justin Son 15 - Finlay Son 12 - Tommy family individuals 3: Father - Ronnie mom - Juliette Son 25 - Grayson Son 21 - Max Daughter 19 - Cassie Son sixteen - Emmett Twins - Jazzie and Joelle
2016-11-03 03:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow when I was reading this story, I thought I was reading a page from my life. I grew up with 3 older brothers and let me tell you, it was hell. The good thing is, boys will respect you because they don't want to have to answers to your male family members. The bad thing is you may have to deal with this until you are grown...lol. But don't worry because it's out of love for you and an ego trip for them : )
2006-07-27 09:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Buffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is a good thring that ur dad or ur brothers care about u and they dont want 2 c u b pregnate or have an std so they do that..but u should talke 2 ur whole family and say please when i'm on the phone dont b rude 2 me or my friends by takeing the phone and asking all these qustions...but like i said them being over protective its kinda a good thing
2006-07-27 09:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by ♥l我爱她 ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just Tell them to leave me alone cue it anit there buisseuis~ or talk to them about how there just ur friends nothing else
2006-07-27 09:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by lol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away from home
2006-07-27 09:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Footy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋