I'm not really friends with this girl but it's my bestfriend's friend so I do know her and I care about her as a person and recently she's been doing a lot of drugs (weed, oxy, and I think she's doing others but not sure) and drinking almost every night. She just recently had a miscarrage and she's only 16. I want to help her but I feel like it's not my place to say anything to her because we arn't that close and it's really not my business but I just can't over look a situation like this, how should I approach it, if at all?
2006-07-27 09:18:31 · 5 answers · asked by *Elle Marie* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get involved!!! that is a life that needs direction!!!!
you don't want to wake up one morning and see her name in the obituaries knowing you may have been able to guide her to some help otherwise!!!!
2006-07-27 09:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by dee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to your friend and tell them how you feel about this girl. Maybe they can invite you along so you can know her better. I wouldn't advise getting in too deep with her because sounds like she has needs that a professional would be better suited to help her with. Maybe you could show her that someone cares and get her into the idea of rehab or counseling. This caring on your part could do a lot for her self esteem.
2006-07-27 16:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is your friend(who is her friend )doing?
You guys should help her. Do not just sit around and
let her self-destruct her life. At least try to help the girl
out.
2006-07-27 16:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by Delicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but I agree, it is probally best not to get involved becasue she might say "why do u care, its none of ur business" thing. so i would probally only help if she asked for help, just pray for her and hope for the best. :)
2006-07-27 16:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by BlinkOnce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her in a way she doesnt know it's you like in a note, letter, email, or something like that. Or tell you bestfriend to talk to her about it. Or just tell her face to face she will thank you for it later.good luck
2006-07-27 16:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋