how do you deal with your new boyfriend being best friends with a girl he used to always hook up with ?

Question

i been with someone for about 3 months now, and he always talk to this girl and she calls all the time ,when i questioned who she is , he says that shes his best friend. but they never hang out (that i know of ) they just tlak all the time and he really bothered me the other day when he said he was gonna call me and called her insteas and then confused a conversation he had with her with talking to me ( i know its confusing ) they used to be friends with benefits before me and this whole situation makes me feel insecure , what should i do. (also his ex had a problem with this girl in his life too but i'm trying to be amture about it, but i think its inappropriate , am i wrong)

Answer 1

I wouldn't. Life brings enough problems into a relationship without adding in his hook up as his best friend. Is he insane thinking any girl would deal with this ?

Answer 2

its a very hard thing to deal with and i give you props for trying... you are and have to continue to be strong to deal with something like this...

i wouldnt deal with it. there is a reason why they are called EX's... and i see no point in having them hang around. i dont hang around with anyone i used to date, and he shouldnt either.