2006-07-27 09:05:58 · 69 answers · asked by hotness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yep, just be straight up. Tell him that you don't want to be with someone capable of breaking the heart of someone he purports to care about and made VOWS to. Someone who is capable of hurting the person who trusts him the most is NOT a catch.
2006-07-27 09:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is kinda silly really. You obviously want to be nice about it so just say no thanks your married and there is nothing in this for me but some cheap sex and watching you run out the door to get home while putting your clothes back on. Personally I would say something like oh baby and you are so appealing because as of this moment I know you are a cheating liar?? no thanks, that makes the point and maybe he thinks for a minute before he tries it with the next girl...and there will be a next girl because a married man looking for someone else just wants sex that he doesn't have to pay for! You make it sound like he is some sweet, kind man you need to let down easy, he isn't he's a lying, cheating, a$$hole, ask his wife she'll tell you who he really is! I would be offended by the implication that I am worthy only of some extra marital sex and his thinking that he has any business trying to use me like that!
2006-07-27 09:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you aren't into him period. And stop flirting back.
His next step is to tell you that it looks like it's over between him and his wife. That's when you'll open the door a little bit. And then it's all over from there.
Just keep in mind that no matter what he says from here on out, HE TRIED TO GET WITH YOU WHILE HE WAS STILL MARRIED. Do you really think that if it turns out that 6 mos or a year from now if he leaves his wife for you, that he wouldn't do that again?
2006-07-27 09:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Manny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you saying in your question, It's not in me to be with you cuz you are a married man?
2006-07-27 09:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Brobe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very direct and very firm. Look him straight in his and sort of snarl when you say this, "Who the hell do you think I am? Do I look like I am striving to be the other woman? I am worth more than that. Get your trifling, cheating, lying, conniving low-down self out of my face. I pity your wife because you are a poor excuse for a husband. Go home to your wife and be glad that she wants you because I surely don't. If you push up on me again, I might have to let your wife know what you're up to. Now, poof and be gone!" Don't blink an eye or stutter. Don't show any signs of doubt because if you do, he won't take you seriously. He's a dog and needs to be treated as such. Get him straight.
2006-07-27 09:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple....just as you stated here. My question is why would anyone have to explain that to a married person in the first place? It upsets me at times, because for some reason they must think singles are just a free ride with no morals or emotion!
2006-07-27 09:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look him right in the eyes and tell him that you are a decent and respectible woman or girl, whichever the case may be, and that you do not respect men who cheat on their wives because they will do the same to you and no relationship is worth it without respect and whoever enters your life, must show you respect. You continue to say, at this point, I don't find you attractive because you are disrepectful to your wife and to me for even attempting to be in my life knowing you are married.
2006-07-27 09:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I must say I know what you are going through , been there done that. All you have to do is be honest with him. Just tell him that you aren't into married men. If he keeps bugging you, just tell him that you are going to tell his wife. He will back off, believe me.
Hope that helps.
2006-07-27 09:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by curleysue272000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you respect his wife too much to lie and cheat with her husband. If that doesn't stop him, he is a pile of trash. Even if she is terrible, you don't want anyone who will cheat, and use people, and not be honest with his wife. You want somone who has courage. If he is unhappy married, tell him to get divorced and come back and see you. Bring the decree.
Why would you ever trust him? If he cheats, he is a cheater, and he will cheat on you, too.
2006-07-27 09:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that "helloooooooo, you marry your wife for a reason, to start a family and because you love her, so go back to her and stop screwing around." Plus, why are you even considering being with a man like that, he obviously doesn't respect his wife so why would he respect you?
2006-07-27 09:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋