I had a alcohol related blackout about a month ago. My GF who has been diagnosed with terminal cancer found me the next day with a crack whore in my car and Me under the influence of crack. She left me but came back but continues to be distant. I was sure that I did not have sex with this woman but to alleviate all doubt went to a hypnotist to reassure myself and my GF. It was proven that I had not slept with the woman and all I did was speak of my GF and difficulties I had with the very idea of losing her.
Still my GF is distant and seems to me painfully hurt. I have no idea what else I could possibly do to prove my love to her.
2006-07-27 08:23:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry, but you are going to have to kiss a lot of bu** on this one. You may not have strayed, but it looked like you did. You let yourself get into that circumstance by losing control. How will she know it won't happen again? Only your diligent work at staying by her side and not going out alone will ease her fears. Yes, she is very hurt, and broken trust is difficult to mend. If you really want her then you will have to earn back that trust.
2006-07-27 08:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that sound like a bad pedicament. You should get alcohol counseling to prove to your gf that you have a problem and that you are trying to make improvements.
2006-07-27 08:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get yourself together. You need to leave the drugs and alcohol alone. You arent going to stop unless you want to. Dont drag your GF into your problems. SHe has enough to deal with.
If you are ready for something different, STOP USING.
2006-07-27 08:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're relationship may improve if you stay off crack and don't drink as much. It couldn't hurt.
2006-07-27 08:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by Denise T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should leave your stupid azz. She is ill and shouldn't have to put up with a crackhead who frequents crackwhores. She deserves better.
2006-07-27 08:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by Trixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋