we're fighing over lil stuff. its him choooseing to go to band pratice than to hang out with me. and i dont know how to handle him doing that. without blowing up in his face. i love him so much, i love him more than anything. and he loves me too. i know he does. but i just get jealous of the whole music scene i guess. i support him i really do. i dont know tho. help.
2006-07-27 08:12:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ease up a bit. You're crowding him. Having a significant other in someones life shouldn't hinder thier life, it should enhance it. You're asking him to give up something he likes so you can hang out with him. You're being very selfish and honestly, I wouldn't date a person like you. I would be so annoyed with you, i'd probobly avoid you like a plague.
Let him have fun, if you love him you'll take pride in the fact that he's happy.
2006-07-27 08:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, you might be right in seeing the situation like this because you are feeling left out and substituted by talents or hobbies.
However you ought to sit down and think a little bit before jealousy kills you altogether. If band music is your bf hobby, why not let him do it in peace? Sometimes it is not worthed fighting over things that other people love to do or find it relaxing or just in free time. You will not win over such an issue.
BE CAREFUL, if you continue like this you are risking loosing your bf altogether.
2006-07-27 15:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need some space. You are around each other too much and the both of you need to get out.
When two people are in love its natural for them go at each other when they are spendin too much time together.
2006-07-27 15:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short... don't be miserable in a relationship that is so difficult. Get a new boyfriend in a different business... let him play his music!
2006-07-27 15:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by woodwinman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you two need some time apart..if music is his life or his job leave him be..if he loves you like you say than you should not worry and let him have his free time with the guys
2006-07-27 15:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you started dating him knowing he does this you accepted him for it then you have to do it know - you can t switch up on him or you might push him away
otherwise just calmly explain how you feel
find something you two can do to make up for some time missed "something you both like to do"
2006-07-27 15:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Soldier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every couple fights.
2006-07-27 15:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cyceiro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail me for a shoulder to cry on
2006-07-27 15:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by briley4242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound insecure. you need to do things that don't always involve him. if you don't stop you'll chase him away.
2006-07-27 15:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him full. then there nothing to feel.
2006-07-27 15:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋