After 16 years and 4 children later I am tired of the broken promises and hurtful words. I cant get past the anger and hurt feelings. And I am doing my children no favors by staying. I am already beginning to see the effects its had on them. I am going to file for a divorce but is a do it yourself divorce difficult?
2006-07-27 08:11:03 · 11 answers · asked by tgs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, it's pretty hard. But if you want to try it, start here: http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/
If you can't afford to pay an attorney, you could go to your area's legal aid clinic--although they might only take you if there's been some form of documentable abuse. Do a Google search for "Legal Aid" in your state.
2006-07-27 08:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Gestalt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 06:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by pantle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you operate on yourself or find a doctor? Marriage and divorce are pretty serious things, in many ways, including legally. Why mess things up but trying to do it yourself? Especially if you've got kids.
In any case, my understanding is that you need a lawyer (unless you know how to draft proceedings, file court documents, prepare affidavits etc).
2006-07-27 08:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is an uncontested divorce it is very easy to do by yourself. However, since you have had a long marriage and children, a lawyer is recommended since there will be spousal and child support issues and splitting of the property issues.
2006-07-27 08:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that difficult to do it yourself. Most family courts have a self help division. It might be a little more challenging if you have assets that need to be split. You can also go to a paralegal to do the paperwork.
2006-07-27 08:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a do it yourself divorce is easy when there is no property to divide, no minor children and both parties agree.
with 4 minor children you can forget the "do it yourself" stuff and hire the best attorney you can find.
2006-07-27 08:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to children and property it can get messy and difficult. However, if you can resolve most things between you and your spouse than
http://www.filefordivorceonline.com
is a great resource.
2006-07-28 20:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by ishistory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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RE :Is it hard to file for divorce without an attorney?
After 16 years and 4 children later I am tired of the broken promises and hurtful words. I cant get past the anger and hurt feelings. And I am doing my children no favors by staying. I am already beginning to see the effects its had on them. I am going to file for a divorce but is a do it yourself divorce difficult?
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2017-04-08 11:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what assets u have together and there are children involved which could make it tougher.
2006-07-27 08:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by Lilybell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did mine myself here in Colorado...
Try this site too: http://www.divorcenet.com/
2006-07-27 08:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by cindyspiderucla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋