well me and my gf got in a dumbass fight .... over her not being able to spend time the other day with me... wat i was going to do on friday it makes 1 year 8 month anni... so i was going to take her flowers... brg a table and chairs from home and play love songs while we eat tgi fridays in the park... u think this is a good idea how would u make up with ur gf after a dumb fight
2006-07-27 08:10:50 · 20 answers · asked by bigJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
write her a poem and give her flowers,if that doesn't melt her heart and warm her up nothing will.you can use this one if you like.
I'm sorry that I'am a dumbass
I hope that soon this will pass.
Forgive me for being mad
Your the best I've ever had.
2006-07-27 08:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by coolkid 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just make sure you actually apologize with words. Let her know that you only got so upset because you missed her and wanted to spend time with her. A picnic sounds nice. But leave the table and chairs home. Just grab a blanket and sit out in the park. That will make it more comfortable and you won't look like a fool for bringing a table to the park.
2006-07-27 08:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice for starters. Admission of guilt will go far. Nothing wrong with admitting you were out of line and dumb. Plus it should score some honor points with her and show her you're not afraid to admit that you're wrong. however, if she starts harping on that and saying snide stuff like "Of course you're wrong, I've told you before, blah, blah, blah then your effort is wasted and she's a twit.
Good touch with the table, chairs and picnic. Forget the love songs though. Thats guilding the lilly.
2006-07-27 08:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends
did you break an agreement with her? It is not clear from what you wrote bro. If you were a dumbass as men often are, then ya take all these girls opinions and acknowledge it - that takes a big man!
if she just acted like a baby to get her way and manipulate you - stay your course and do not apologise for being yourself.
It is hard to say - i was not there.
2006-07-27 08:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a lovely idea, and I think it's WONDERFUL that you can admit that you were wrong. Honestly, that will mean more to her than the flowers or anything else. (But flowers and dinner in the park are a very nice way to make sure she understands.)
2006-07-27 08:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends - did she want to spend time with you or did you want to spend time with her????? Is she trying to tell you something? Otherwise, it sounds like a good idea, but don't forget to tell you're sorry and that ur a dumbass.
2006-07-27 08:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a lovely gesture! I think she will like it. Dont make it cheap looking flowers though! Go for a lovely handtied one!! Have a good day/night tomorrow!
2006-07-27 08:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Moi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, however I would prefer if you speak to her and explain it all.
Flowers and everything else is a very nice gesture, but does not echo the word "I'm sorry" which a human heart would really would love to hear.
2006-07-27 08:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ur sorry u jsut really missed her and really wanted to see her tell her u cant help u love to see her, and u wont be a dumbass again like dat but she cant blame u for wanting to be wiht her, ur not a dumbass, u jsut wanna be wiht her thats sweet
2006-07-27 08:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she would appreciate you going through all that trouble, but honestly, all you really need to do is tell her what you just told us. You're sorry. You lost your temper. You were a jerk. I'm sorry goes a long way. (I'm sure the other stuff will, too though)!
2006-07-27 08:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋