I don't wanna be so so mean. My other friends are on my side. She acts like a friend when I'm near but when I'm not there she starts. My other friends tell me what she's saying when she's not around.
2006-07-27 08:00:39 · 24 answers · asked by zac efron lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay first thing you should do is when she comes near you say I am hearing what you have been saying about me when I am not around!And ask her why do u do this?True friends don't bail on eachother and they r always there to catch you when you fall!Well I just wanted to say that!neways just like simply tell her I heard what you have been saying about me and say you were bailing on me!ask why do u do this!say true friends dont bail on eachother!and if she says something your response might be but if you were a true friend u would not talk about me behind my back!and then your next response might be.and what (her name here) Your not a true friend because you talk about me behind my back and I feel stupid!Because all this times your so cool and then this.okay now this is the last thing i have to tell you or ask you!Who do u do this???????????????cuz your not a true friend???????put her in the spot put some pressure on her and ask her why u have to be mean and if you werent so mean u will feel better about yourself tell her that.well say your not exactly mean to me but mean to me when u talk about me in fornt of people!and say I am srry but I guess I cant be your friend anymore!!!!!!!!
Okay I got the true friends dont bail on you and tehy r always there to catch ya when ya fall well i got that off of hannah montana!well if u have known eahcother forever u still should do this!that is truely not a true friend!
2006-07-28 21:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and ask her if she been talking about you behind your back.Are you sure the other friends are on your side?Reason I ask is because you sometimes can't go by what other people say.He said She said isn't good.Try to get some proof,tell these friends to record it.What is it that she is saying anyway?If the b...is bold enough to say yeah i was talking about you dead that b......Not saying that she is innocent but sometimes people get jealous or want to start trouble and make up lies.Be sure if she is talking crap that way you don't lose a good friend.If you find out it is true then tell her these words"You lost a good friend hope it was worth it b....."
2006-07-27 15:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by redanimalmuppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, don't call her a friend cos friends don't talk crap about others, no matter what happens or has happened between them. Go and talk to her and ask her straight up what's wrong with you two she's been saying bad stuff about you. Friends are to made to help each other, to comfort each other and to charish bad and good moments... as well as to say the truth face to face when mess starts calling... If she doesn't want to be your friend then probably she's missing a good friend and you're saving yourself problems and waste of time because of having someone acting childish around you.
2006-07-27 15:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by IslandGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, have you actually heard her say anything first hand? If you have, then you need to confront her and tell her what you know. If she really is a friend, she'll stop. If not, then she's not the kind of person you need as a friend.
If you've not actually heard her say anything for yourself, then you still need to let her know that you're hearing things you don't care for and ask her if it's true. I would talk with her one on one in either case and not with the rest of your friends around. This is between you and her. Good luck!
2006-07-27 15:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is being very immature. Luckily, she might eventually outgrow this behavior, until then I would back off from the friendship. I would be polite when I saw her, but I wouldn't volunteer any information (because you don't know how she might use it against you). I would keep it on more of a "hi, nice to see you" level for at least awhile. Also, I wouldn't retaliate in any way. It could just end up making you look bad.
2006-07-27 15:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would confirm WITHOUT A DOUBT that this is really happening and that your other friends aren't just saying these things are happening to mess with your head. (Teenage girls can REALLY be mean and mess with you like that)
If this girl really is doing this, confronting her isn't going to do any good, all she is interested in is drama. Just ignore her and let her slip out of your life. Don't ever involve yourself with people who you don't respect, or people who don't respect you. Nothing good comes of it.
My question then is, if she is talking trash like this, why are your friends hanging out with her? Why aren't your friends sticking up for you when this girl talks this way about you? Why would anyone want to sit around and listen to all that negativity when you could be focusing on things that bring you joy? Once again, nothing good ever comes out of involving yourself with people and situations that you don't respect or that don't respect you.
All of this sounds like a lot of drama that just isn't going anywhere good. If I were you, I'd focus on what you want for and in your life and let everything slip away that isn't helping you get there.
2006-07-27 15:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by siddartha360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't respect you. You should be able to be yourself and not have to worry about what people are saying about you behind your back. And why wouldn't you want to be mean and confront her about her back stabbing? Isn't she being the mean one?
2006-07-27 15:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you...I would go up to tha b*tch and be like...I heard you talkin ****..blah blah blah...and if she lied I would beat her head into the concrete...been there...done that...it all works out for the best...you dont want a friend like that...and she learns a lesson on how to respect ppl
2006-07-27 15:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her whats up dont let her talk **** about u you're not being mean but if you want to get even make up rumars about her like she's bi or um she pees in the pool or she eats her own bugers or she's 2 faced or she's a really mean person
2006-07-27 15:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by fallin_angel_deadly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends where really your friends, they would stop her when she says something against you, and they should confront her with you, end of story
2006-07-27 15:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by maltese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋