ok the thing is my friend from camp invited me to a party shes having this weekend.its gonna be guys and girls and a swim party.im really nervous because ive never been to a guy girl party EVER and i think her guys friends are ones who get going with girls if ya kno what i mean.ive never even had a boyfriend!i kinda want to go but i kinda wanna just be safe and stay home.do you think i should go?if so PLZ PLZ PLZ give me tips on how to stay cool and on other stuff that might come up.anything and everything!thank u so much!
2006-07-27 07:59:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Smile to the guys if they become obnoxious..and begin hitting on you.. tell them, I don't enjoy being hit on, thank you.. and if you don't stop, perhaps you won't mind my hitting on you .. "SMACK!!"
Go to the party, enjoy the fun. If things get to an area you're not comfortable with, call one of your parents and ask them to pick you up.
2006-07-27 08:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by sassy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may not be ready for this big step. Your better judgment is trying real hard to send you a message. Better to listen to it and be safe.
If you DO decide to go, stick close to your friends, and don't be afraid to say NO! and mean it.
Good luck!!
2006-07-27 08:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by yellowcab208 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all, how old are you. sounds like you are quite apprehensive about going. i have learned from many experiences, if it does not feel good, don't do it. if you really want to go, talk to your friend, let her know how you feel. a real friend will make sure everything will be ok. will her parents be there? remember, don't drink. it really impairs your judgment. be safe.
2006-07-27 08:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by thesebootsaremadeforwalkin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I definitely would go. Sometime in your life you will have to go to such a party, and believe me, everyone's gets along and has something to do. Just don't be self-conscious and be yourself. Have fun!
2006-07-27 08:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by astranger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm a guy,but my advice is go ahead have fun with your friends, and don't care of any body, hey they aren't gonna eat you. So please, go with your friends and have fun. the world wasn't made to fear it, it was made to have fun while you can, cause when the time comes someone else will come instead you. later.
2006-07-27 08:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't go - save your childhood. There will be plenty of time for parties later. Trust me.
2006-07-27 08:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by TPG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay calm, go, have fun, get yourself a guy, explore. don't be afraid.
good luck
2006-07-27 08:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋