i have liked this guy for a long time and we are just friends and he knows i like him. he is the typeof guy to have a different girl every week. he does not live near me but he tells me now that he likes me and says he sees us getting old together. i was wondering if i should take the chance with him or move on to somebody else who likes me for who i am and i can trust them more than him. i need any kind of help.
2006-07-27 07:57:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends on how old you guys are. Trust me when I say that young guys play the field more that an older guy, its just what we do. However, if you are both young then I say have fun together, and just do what feels right. Don’t worry too much about spending the rest of your life together, if he makes you happy in the moment then the life together thing will come.
If you are older that say, 25 then I would totally kick him out. Seriously if guys can’t start to settle down by 25 then they most likely won’t ever.
About the distance thing: that makes everything more difficult. Long distance relationships are super tough. But if you can make it though living far from each other than everything else is cake. So if he’s young and far away don’t stress if thinks he’s a player. If you find happiness then try and make it work the trust will come as you grow together. But don’t fall for lines and BS cause all guys will try and pull stuff. And if he isn’t a young dude get far away soon.
2006-07-27 08:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by ghostpirate7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would stay friends for now until he grows up and quits having different girls every week. In the interim, date others so that you will know if he is really the one that you want to be with for the rest of your life. You deserve to be in a marriage that will last and a husband that will be faithful. You also deserve to be loved for who you are. Trust is also an important component of marriage. See who is out there for you and it will help you to decide if you want to take a chance on changing your relationship with him.
2006-07-27 15:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Paula P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he ever given you a reason not to trust him? I used to date around a LOT however I was always honest with people. Now I have been happily involved for almost 3 years.
2006-07-27 15:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question... " he is the type of guy to have a different girl every week " He is just playing you !! Move on !!
2006-07-27 15:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A different girl every week seems equalivelent (spelchk) to a large blinking caution sign. Id stay away.
2006-07-27 15:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut instincts! This type of guy moves from one girl to the next. It's all about getting laid they need the variety the excitement of it all. Choose someone else - save yourself!
2006-07-27 15:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a long serious talk with him, and find out if he is ready to committ to just you, and let go of the others. If he is the kind that is honest, u'll have your answer, but I still say be careful, and maybe just try dating and see what happens b-4 u move farther.........
2006-07-27 15:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by dazed.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a doormat for some guy that won't respect you. Find someone else to like and be with. Plus, you might catch something from him if you do the nasty.
2006-07-27 15:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him to the movies and watch a movies both of you like to see. Then got to Main Event and go bolwing and do lazer tag. He might stay with you because you love to do what he does.
2006-07-27 15:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Maria S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the trustworthy ,dependable guy who loves u for who u are and not what u look like.
as for the first guy , yeah right he wants to see you grow old with him...that's after he goes around with every other woman around the block !!! stay away from him and do yourself a favour , girl !
2006-07-27 15:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by dxb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋