these people right away? And what do you do if sometimes your friends are healthy to be around and other times they are not?
2006-07-27 07:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by RACHAEL R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well when we just meet someone first impressions can be important , look them in the eyes many times your intuition will tell you something may not be as it seems with a particular person. Trust your instincts and notice how the person takes care of their self. I don't mean nice clothes, shoes etc. but are they clean , do they use alot of foul language , do they appear sneaky? Those sorts of things. And do they act in a manner you would find inappropriate for yourself to act? This may be called profiling to a degree but its your obligation to look out for yourself. If you have friends whom you sometimes don't feel comfortable around I would make them more distant friends than the tried and true friends. Don't spend time with them when they are acting inappropriately if you choose to spend time with them at all. Stay away from people who thrive on drama for instance they always have some perceived problem going on and if they don't they tend to create one ( a big red flag on this one).
2006-07-27 08:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you are feeling i had this friend and we were really close but she was making really crappy choices so i just asked her not to call and only talked to her at school. there's really no way to tell but if many of the teachers that like you don't like her then thats a sign that she might be bad news i wish i never started hanging out with that friend for example last and only time someone went to her house there were 7 guys there all about 3 years older then her over and they played poker and the boys got bored and started poring the poker chips down her shirt and sitting on her lap and just being gross for her age. But she was okay to hang out with in school but school only.
2006-07-27 14:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut. A good way to know, right away, is to have them meet your parents. Your parents are the best trouble detectors you can have.
2006-07-27 14:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some cases you do need to judge in order to keep yourself out of trouble and only you are able to pick right from wrong in order to do so.
2006-07-27 14:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you said rightly, just stay away from 'em. don't chat, don't go out, don't call 'em. if you persistently keep busy doing som' else each time they wanna hang out, they'll get a clue and leave you alone hopefully. otherwise just tell 'em bluntly to stay away from you.
2006-07-27 14:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by rayhanna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easiest way would be to observe who their friends are. quality people surround themselves with quality people.
2006-07-27 14:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by georgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋