I ve been seperated from my wife for 6mths now and im seeing someone which i feel comfortable with now, but recently i ve been dreaming and having funny feelings about my ex-wife. What is going on with me cause i don't want to be with her again im comfortable with who im with now.
2006-07-27 07:34:56 · 12 answers · asked by shain4real 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Breaking the emotional attachments you have had together takes time even when you know you do not want to be living with that person any longer. You have shared a life together for a period of time and shared a multitude of living habits together. its only natural that from time to time you will think of your ex and feel this way, its just the brains way of coping with some of the emotional baggage that's been left. It should ease off through time. Remember six months is not such a long time to get over anyone properly when you have been in a serious relationship.
Its probably more memories you are reliving in your dreams rather than actual desire to be back together again. Give it time.
2006-07-27 13:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Oh God! I dream about all of my ex significant other's all the time. I've even had dreams about my ex-husband where I'm very happy with him, sometimes in the back of my mind there is a niggle that something else is going on in my life (like my partner of 7 years) and sometimes not. I also dream about my first proper boyfriend (we were together 5 years) a lot.
Its natural to dream about people who were an important part of your life. Don't read too much into it.
2006-07-27 23:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to take a break from whomever you are seeing now, and figure out where you really are in your life,
maybe you've cut her out too much, and if you really dont want to be with her again, maybe you still need her as a friend,
6 months is quite sudden to be seeing someone especially if you were so much in love to be married, depending on how long you were married for, and how long you've actually known her for,
maybe you feel guilty for the failure of your relationship, and need to lay these feelings to rest ? takes a lot of insight to overcome these things (whether it be that you are still needing her or finding how to move on) good luck ! take some time for discovering you before you get in another relationship though, trust me on this one!
2006-07-27 19:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loss and grief take a while to hit. It doesn't matter whether you are happy with the split or not, you still spend a long time with your ex and need time to get over the relationship.
2006-07-27 09:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal, I would not worry about it at all. I dreamed of my ex up to 15 years after we split.
There is no controlling your subconscience which is where the dreams are coming from.
2006-07-27 07:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's normal. I seperated from my ex about 2 years ago and I still dream about him. I hate it!
2006-07-27 07:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby u have unresolved issues with your ex wife try talking to her maby u still love her deep down u say your with your new partner try and talk to her explaine all wots in your head or maby you feel guilty about leaving your wife
2006-07-27 07:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by funky chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe what you had with your wife is not over. Talk to her and possible get some professional help.
2006-07-27 07:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously after beeing with her for a long time you must still have feelings deep inside for her,she has been on your mind thats how you dream of her,..,.,.,.,
2006-07-27 07:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by theblackwitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a counselor about your feeling....get them sorted out
2006-07-27 07:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋