why do i keep on stumbling?

Question

whenever i meet a person, on msn or yahoo or face to face, i start to make a complete foolof myself, and eventually dont, why? plus if anyone wants to speak to me as a friend email me

Answer 1

maybe you just have a hard time putting into words how you really feel and things always come out wrong? just think about things before you write or talk. Sounds like you might be a little insecure about facing people or meeting people and tend to get over anxious about things. Just slow down, clam down and relax, where all people here, we all make mistakes, just stop stop worrying about these kinds of things and be yourself. :)

Answer 2

meeting new plp can make u nervous, but in time, it becomes easier and natural. I always tell plp I am shy at first until I feel comfortable, and then I am able to talk more and open up, and usually they understand. Sounds like we r 2 peas in a pod , LOL!!!

Answer 3

its totally normal. your subconscious wants everything to go well. but the rest of you doesnt get the plan yet. so next time just go with the flow and dont worry if things will go wrong.

Answer 4

Sounds like nerves,the more you chat with ppl, the easier it will get,
good luck mate.

Answer 5

Boy you should'nt meet people,god knows who you could be meeting take care!

Answer 6

if I email you, and you email me back, are you going to stumble and make a foll of yourself?

Answer 7

UR NOT SELF-CONFIDENT...BE U BUT DO NOT GIVE A WHOLE SPEECH OF WHO U REALLY R...JUST TRY TO BE POLITE AND INTERESTING BUT NOT DESPERATE OR IRRITATING...GOOD LUCK HONEY
BYE

Answer 8

Could it be that you speak before you think?

Answer 9

social anxiety maybe

Answer 10

think before your gonna open ya mouth..................