I have just found out My Ex-girlfreind is pregnant and I dont know what to do!
2006-07-27 07:23:03 · 22 answers · asked by bud 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
find out if she really is first ..it might be a ploy to get you back...if you have the proof there then talk to each other tell her what you want to do and listen to what she wants to do ...if you want differently then try some kind of compromise ...if she is pregnant it's a little life you are dealing with you a dad and she a mum to a baby ...but don't get back with each other jsut for the baby ...it has to be love aswell. she could have it and rear it alone with financial help from you ...you could get back together and rear it as a couple ..or you could put it for adoption if neither of you want it
2006-07-28 12:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
First thing you should do it calm down!
How long ago did you guys break up? How pregnant is she? No disrespect, but is it yours? Why did you break up?
Talk to her. Does she want to keep it? If so how involved does she want you to be and how involved do you want to be? Don't go down that road where you get back together "for the sake of the baby", it never works, you broke up for a reason and if it weren't for the baby you wouldn't even consider getting back together. Having a baby is stressful enough without adding a rocky relationship to the mix.
Good luck!
2006-07-27 14:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand by her! Don't marry her, if she is an ex, then it is obvious that you have problems. If you decide not to give the child up for adoption then it will need both parents involved in its life, but to get married would only add problems if you don't get along. Give her all the support you can, financial and physical. If you are still at home you should both tell your parents and let them help you. Good luck
2006-07-27 14:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by isellpc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are places were u can go get the baby tested for free, to see if ur the biological father. before hand u gotta tell ur parents and see what they say cuz they are gonna find out anyway babe.
get a job and give her some money towards the baby and be there for her when she needs u.
2006-07-27 18:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Stephie.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should first make sure she's pregnant, and then make sure the baby is even yours. whatever decision she makes you pretty much have to deal with. its her body so if she wants an abortion she will have one, and if she decides against it, then you'll be hit with child support. just take this situation as a life lesson. be more careful next time.
2006-07-27 14:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First u need to think. U have to think about how to raise the child. Get a job. Don't leave her. U need to be part of the babies life. Pay for child support.
2006-07-27 15:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Katharyn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way is to talk to her do you want to get back together?if not then i would discuss things and become really good freinds not just for you but the baby how long have you been split up for hom many months only you know these questions ask?
2006-07-27 15:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA mate as soon as the baby is born, and work it from that. No point crying over spilt milk is there. All the best to you.x
2006-07-27 16:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by clicky j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a great job- Kids are expensive. Daycare costs me $800 a month for one child.
2006-07-27 14:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by C H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you guys??? and if she's really young get a ABORTION and if you guys dont think you can support this baby or want it have a ABORTION it will make your life better for the two of you and next time wear comdom
2006-07-27 14:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by kay2angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋