He has a history of being rude especially when he's had far too much to drink. He's embarrassed me number of times and not to mention all the rude behavior he has caused around my sister in particular. She has tried to get along with him in the past but just recently over memorial weekend we went to a friends house which he didn't know, everything was going fine or at least thats what I thought. As it turned out he had one too many beers and made a complete fool of all of us including himself. A few yrs ago my sister was celebrating her birthday and had invited us to go celebrate, but according to him we had made plans to do something. I really wanted to go, but since he had nothing to wear, his excuse was that we had plan and thats total bull. That is not the worst part, he was forming scandals about it right in my house right in front of my sister. This was yrs ago and til this day he doesn't think he needs to apologize.
2006-07-27 06:54:34 · 3 answers · asked by besitos111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok, sounds like he is the wrong guy for you. what kind of boyfriend do you want? compare those things to what u have (im pretty sure embarrassing is NOT anywhere on there). if he respects u and ur family, he would not drink at all or at least control his drinking around them (he can get drunk w/ his buds). please, find someone who Respects you, makes you feel happy, safe, secure. you want someone who you *trust*, u put your life in his hands and you trust that he respects and loves and cares for all those things. if he doesn't respect ur parents, it is a key indicator that he doesn't have the same values and responsiblity that you need, in any kind of relationship (i'm sure even ur friends don't treat ur sister and stuff like crap). be firm in what you want in a guy, keep your boundaries; let him know that if u are not feeling secure, u are out. if you are taking care of him and putting up w/ his crap cuz u love him, u are just letting him take advantage of your love. find someone who loves u so much that he is Worth it, and you are Worth it to him to make you happy in all things, physical, mental, emotionally, family, etc.
2006-07-27 07:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My good friend has a husband like that the best thing you can do is deal with it or get out of the relationship. You are going to be the one in the family noone likes b/c of your husband then more than likely he will leave you for his drinking and you will be all by yourself with noone wanting anything to do with you b/c of him. I would move on and find someone better than him..
2006-07-27 13:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, since it was so long ago just to not bring it up unless he does something like it again. Your boyfriend should be good to you and your family!
2006-07-27 14:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋