okay last night i was trying to go to sleep when i get woke up by this loud noise. it was my bf running to the door. come to find out his friend from next door invited these two girls over and they brought some cocaine. my bf doesnt do that and i dont like it in my house b/c i have 3 children whom i really dont want taken away from me. the one girl was some one that i dont like. shes always coming over with diffrent guys and yet she still hangs all over who ever else is at my house.... guy or girl including my bf!. ne ways i just wanted to know if i was wrong to get mad at my bf for one b/c this girl is a whore and hes up parting by himself with her. i mean i trust him but if hes going to see any **** and as* its going to be on the tv or me. and more than once ive cought her tring to grab him where only i should be grabbing. yes ive snapped at her but my bf says i dont have to worry b/c he loves me and doesnt have any interest in her. i still feel i did notihng wrong....
2006-07-27 06:51:43 · 9 answers · asked by clownluv♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanx to all who answered last time but i need more advice. like i said before he moves when she advances and he doesnt like her coming on to him. and i know hes not f-ing her b/c she works during the day and my bf is home with the kids while i work. and he doesnt really leave home so thats out of the ?
2006-07-27 06:53:42 · update #1
hey hun....first off i would like to say that you have every right as a parent to be angry....you should set him down and make im realize that you two have the biggest responsibility in the world now called kids... he also needs to realize that it is all to easy for kids to get taken away form there parents in this day and time...when i was a baby me and my twin sis got takin away form our mom cause of the partying and there was only beer in the house!...could you imagine if there was something stronger!...and it is defiantly not good for that girl to be over there if she is on drugs...its bad for your relation ship and its bad for you kids....they can't decide what they are and are not exposed to right now and its your responsibility to protect them...what i don't understand (and i am by no means saying that he is cheating) is if he doesnt like the drugs and doesnt like her then why does he let her come over?...it just doesnt make any since does it?...please have a talk with him and help him to realize that right now by lettin' that girl any were near his family is hurting his you and your kids....love daisy
2006-07-27 07:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by crazy_daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly understandable to get upset from such situation. But, think hard if you really trust your boyfriend or not. If you really know in your heart that you do, I'd say there's no need to start up a fight with him over someone like her. It would only make him feel that you don't trust him and dignify her cheapness. Try to see it this way: that the girl is a pathetic attention whore not deserving your attention let alone your losing sleep, and that your boyfriend is so hot that she can't get her hands off him. Once you're able to see this matter from that point of view [and hopefully your boyfriend too], I'm sure you two will only laugh behind her back at her pathetic attempts to get guys' attention.
And yeah sure, talk calmly to him that you don't like it when he hangs out with her. Be firm about it, but no need to raise your voice. Hopefully he'll then abide!
2006-07-27 07:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by crystal iceberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong to be angry because there is cocaine in the house while your children are in there. Listen, this is weird... he knows you have a problem with that girl... why is he inviting her over or letting his friends bring her along? I think your boyfriend should be more considerate for your feelings and let his friends know about this girl being all over him so there is no way she can come into your house. If it's your house, set some rules. You want your children to end up drug addicted? You know that children hear everything... and COPY everything too. Think about that.
2006-07-27 07:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-28 17:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by likins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong. I can understand your bf's position...I always say that my friends come before my bf (they were there before him and will be there after him) but, your bf has to understand how you feel about this; especially since you have 3 KIDS IN YOUR HOME and she's coming over to party with DRUGS. You need to put your foot down! If he wants to party with her and her drugs he needs to do it elsewhere and just because you trust him doesn't mean nothing will happen. She obviously likes to get on your nerves by doing the things she does. Sit with both and them and have a serious talk...if nothing changes you may just have to cut him loose....especially since you have the kids.
Good luck.
2006-07-27 07:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a fool,does he have any respect for you at all?and if you thought everything was ok you wouldnt ask,hmmmmm cocaine and whores but hes completely faithful,im laughing at you right now,if he has no interest why does he hang out with her,and if hes not into coke why does he hang with people who are.honestly either your completely blind,or have the mind of a 5 year old,sorry to be rude but honestly,if my girl didnt like someone i wouldnt even speak to her,its called RESPECT,so what she works during the day and he has the kids ummmmmmm ever hear of a lunch break or a day off,not like you know her whole schedule,dont fool yourself hes playing you and you losing,and shes laughing at you right now,seriously
2006-07-27 06:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by cote8377 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her know what the fk is going on and he shouldnt be hanging out with her alone unless they are doing something. I wouldnt trust a whore or a man. Just sneak and watch them two when they are alone. Well sht first they shouldnt be alone together that is a clue. I would tell her azz something and then let him know something also.
2006-07-27 06:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nop u did nothin wrong at all. if a whore came up all over ma bf i wud get so mad at him and her becuz first of all he must like it if he doesnt tell her anything and second of all shez doing it with knowin his taken. it pisses me off becuz i bet that whore is thinkin "wow i m better dan his gf if he does all dez things in her house". grl dont let that kinda person come into ur home.
2006-07-27 06:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl heck naw! You were NOT wrong. You should have put EVERYONE out the house, including your boyfriend! You are 100% valid in getting angry with your boyfriend. I would sit him down and let him know you will NOT allow her, or any other druggie whore in to your house and if he does it again he can leave with their skanky ***!
2006-07-27 06:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Rasi E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋