2006-07-27 06:45:58 · 40 answers · asked by deutza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
because nowadays people are so fake.
2006-07-27 06:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by diannabishop 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Dear me,
Real love means unselfish love or love for the sake of love.
It sounds bit idealistic, isn't it?
Human beings by nature cannot be purely or 100% unselfish.
Again,when selfishness is present there cannot be pure love.
See the positive angle.
These imperfections in this world makes a reason to seek GOD.
Because if you find perfect happiness or perfect love here, you will never seek GOD.
In other words It is the kindness of GOD that time and again he makes us realise(through heartbreaks) that this world is not a place to seek pleasure.
Instead of seeking love, we should try to love and serve others as our fellow creatures unselfishly as far as possible ,so that the attachment with this world is gone. It will make road for attachment with GOD; the only source of infinite love and pleasure.
regards
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2006-07-27 07:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by bsure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't hard. But you have to realize that not everyone you meet will be suitable for you. Only a very few people will actually be compatible enough for you to want to be with them and love them. Until you find someone you get along great with, have a lot in common with, want the same kinds of things..then you will have to just keep looking.
2006-07-27 06:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idont know how to answer you this question .But the truth any body can find real love IF he show real love
IT is not so hard to be loved by some one if you show that he is been loved by you IN fact he well appreciate you more
2006-07-27 07:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by jamal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that hard to be loved. I mean, you're most likely loved by your friends and your family and whatnot. So you have achieved that type of love, but the love in which marriage is involved may take longer to find and is of course, harder to find as well.
But it's not hard to be loved. More and more people are falling in love so fast nowadays, so basically love is easy to get, but it's hard to keep.
2006-07-27 06:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by usagimoon2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps because we can't spell? J/K I know that was a little harsh. I don't think it's hard, way too many people have been in love with me. Just be happy, be yourself, and the right one will come hoppin' along!
2006-07-27 06:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general it is because ppl are just to selfish now-a-days. It is the "fast food world" where everyone wants instant gratification and when they cant get it they turn their nose up. In short...most ppl like the "fast food world" and don't want to put to much effort into anything, especially a relationship.
2006-07-27 06:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two reasons: expectations and baggage.
We all have baggage from previous relationships or events in our lives. It carries over into our romantic relationships in one way or another. And generally, that baggage causes us to have certain expectations. And when someone doesn't fulfill those expectations, too many people immediately give up.
2006-07-27 06:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the world is going in terrible.because all people like the war , money and annoy others.but i think a person can show respect and humanism and how much can be good and kind, with kindly behave you can find your love , i wish you success.
2006-07-27 06:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by realmadrid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a such thing as love, just lust. And after a few years that runs out, then you get a diviorce. Thats the way it goes man sory to disapoint you.
2006-07-27 06:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz you Kan't spell.
2006-07-27 06:47:44 · answer #11 · answered by Sally Pepsi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋