2006-07-27 06:22:38 · 19 answers · asked by Honeymist 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it's more of pain due to pressure rather than pain from tearing flesh. Always do it first with him on top and make him go slow. So slow that you wouldn't even realize it's in there until he starts to stroke back and forth. and a little advice. Don't try to ride him on the first time unless you've done some streching because i caught a charlie horse my first time and that pain was way more excruciating than the sex itself.
2006-07-27 06:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Butta 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
as a guy I can't tell you if it'll hurt you but I can say that I've done some research on that topic and it's good to take it slow don't have him pound you or rush in to seriously take his time going in and to do it a little bit at a time until you're comfortable with him being inside of you. But you shouldn't do it until you're married anyway. Use a lot of lubricant, and protection. perhaps you should start by buying a dildo that will at least get you use to the way one feels inside of you.
2006-07-27 14:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some women it hurts a little, for some not at all, and in some extreme instances, it can hurt a lot [as in girls with imperforated hymens]. I've seen instances of girls that have gone to the emergency room with nasty vaginal tears that have required stitches. But, generally speaking, if the guy is gentle, caring, and takes his time to break you in properly, it should hurt little or not at all.
2006-07-27 13:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by la_nena_sabe... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetheart i know that my 1st time hurted like hell and thats the truth everyone is different some people said it did some peopl said it didnt i think u should think before doing it a lot of feelings and emotions are involed but hey if u think ur ready good luck and protect urself u wouldnt want to be hiv positve or contract any other std's
2006-07-27 14:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by pinkparisbutterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person and the size of the guy....for some women it hurts the first time (or first couple times), and for some women it doesnt hurt...it really all depends
2006-07-27 13:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does. How bad depends on several things, his size, your size, how lubricated you are, and wether or not your are tense or relaxed and getting into it. I don't see what difference his experince level can make unless he is rushing it which a lot of young boys tend to do.
2006-07-27 13:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
labor, which can occur when you practice unsafe and unprotected sex, hurts a hell of a lot more. losing your virginity hurts a little.
2006-07-27 13:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts and u should not have sex until your married
2006-07-27 14:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's gonna hurt because a virgin hole iz tight
2006-07-27 13:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica_H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will hurt at 1st cuz your hole iz small but you get used 2 it after a while.
2006-07-27 14:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by Dalicia Brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋