Friends or bf?

Question

I met this guy, and he is really pretty, all my friends are kinda all over him, like flirting and all.. i know none of them really really likes him, but its what it seems for him and other ppl. But he is REALLY nice.. and i wanted to have him as a friend! But the thing is he will be thinking i want him as somthing else other than a friend. and i really don't think he is intressted, but neither am i . how can i show that, but by being his friend cause he is really nice.. How can i do it without ppl thinking i'm flirting with him?

Answer 1

You should let him know straight up that you like him just as a friend.I myself ended up with my friend when at first that was all i wanted but that's me.Don't worry about what other people think about thinking you are flirting with him.That's none of their business and if those"people" are you friends they should know the deal.As long as the two of you have an understanding thats all that should matter.If he's really nice than keep him because friends can last a lifetime.My man is my best friend for life and we been friends 9 years now.Good luck to you.

Answer 2

F*ck what people think .........Hes a cute guy.......obviously he's going to have some female friends and not all of them want to be with him.........

He's your friend and youre the only people that have to worry about the course of your friendship......you know what the two of you have so screw the rest......they're just probably jealous anyway ;)

No worries.........just keep up the friend thing dont be overzealous or do anything that would be flirty or TOO flirty anyway because being a female its kind of in our nature but yeah keep it playful and dont cross any lines and the friendship will develop wonderfully.............and ........maybe....something will happen that u didnt expect as the friendship grows..........

In the end, nonetheless, you have a great friend to add to the long list Im sure you already have and thats the bottom line and what really counts :)

Answer 3

God, this is sooooo teenager question. Lol Holy cow, get over yourself and guys! Guys arent going to ruin your world if you dont have one in your life! ANd if he is really pretty? What the hell does that mean?...Lol Well sister, if he is prettier than you, it can never work out. lol Um, get over it, who gives a flying ****?...where are the real questions at? Have a good day..

Answer 4

I think you should just be who you are, especially around him and let other people have their opinions. You never know things may turn around and you two could get together. I always say be honest with your friends. I'm sure if you tell him your feelings he will respond. Good Luck

Answer 5

THanx for the 2 points .

Answer 6

TO me.. I think u better let nature take its course ba..
If u are fated to know him as friend, u will be..
If not.. there no point to make dat exxtra mile to know him.
Perharps when u get to know him after all dat difficulties, that friendship may not lasts too.
CHEERS yea!

Answer 7

One thing you are totally confused. Our mind is only way of think about other so change your mind than watch again i think now you know the good result

Answer 8

Does it really matter what people think? I think you should just be yourself and not worry what people think. There is always going to be someone that misunderstands your words, actions or motives. Just relax and be you.

Answer 9

Who cares wut people think, as long as he knows and you know that u guys r just friends that thats all that matters. If you are worried bout wut people think and that is making you wonder if u guys should be friends then that just means he isnt worth sacrificing something.Go with your gut feeling and everything will work out. Good Luck!

Answer 10

first friend, if u fall in love than bf