I have this friend and are son's are best friends so this summer we agreed to get to gether more and do things with are kids and we have but it always seemed like I was the one to always call and say lets go somewhere, and when we didn we had a good time and got along real good and when I call her we talk along time and get along good. But I am the one calling all the time and if she is not there I will leave her a message and she will return my call and it seems like she makes it a point to say "hey, I was just returning your call" Why can't she call? I mean, if we didn't talk much when I did call her I would understand but it seems like we get along but she just never calls or says hey why don't yaw come over, I ask her to come over. I feel like if I stop calling her I may not hear from her much at all, Should I just stop calling and what do you think about the situation?
2006-07-27 05:53:11 · 6 answers · asked by Rebecca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh and I guess this concerns me cause I want to have a good friend like it seems we are but I don't want it to be one way.
2006-07-27 05:54:01 · update #1
I don't want to be rude, but your spelling and grammar and sentence structure is too much for my eyes. Best of luck to your problem, whatever it is.
2006-07-27 06:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Bloo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She not your friend just an associate. She probably taking advangtage, jealousy, or something going on. You need to be careful when your son and her son are together. This not a good comfortable situation. Friendships should be give and take. You need to meet more positve people.
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2006-07-27 13:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just don't like calling. I'm one of those people.
All my friends know that I rarely pick up the phone to call someone, but they also know that I care about them all very much. I just don't like to use the phone.
I think you are being overly sensitive.
2006-07-27 13:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably likes you and enjoys your company, but maybe she has a lot of things to do at home...laundry, cleaning the house etc. as long as she calls you back and you enjoy spending time together, don't worry. there's usually someone who gives more in every relationship. if she brushes you off, then i'd back off.
2006-07-27 13:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by tisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In every relationship the question needs to be asked, what are we doing and do we have the same mutual goal,? talk to your friend , kids aside that you like her for her, see if that warms it up and give and take have balance!
2006-07-27 12:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call someone else.
2006-07-27 12:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋