He has been going to his friend house to do things that I don't like his not cheeting but he does not have time for me.but makes time for his friend I whant him out but my father tells me to waite I own my daycare so I think he wont leave because of the money I make it work for him he does pay half of the bill but he has become more of a room mate than a partner if you know what I mean please help
2006-07-27 05:34:47 · 10 answers · asked by casa de amor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We have talk about this many time he doees not want to leave & I also told him that maby his ready to move on but he just wont leave evry time I pack my bag or tell him to leavre he start to cry I my self I'm tierd of trying I dont' want to get married he does but for what so I can be his mother
2006-07-27 05:49:56 · update #1
We dont see each other all the time he work nights and I work day's and he has alway had the freedom to be with his friend I dont' think you need to be together 24-7 I but do need to spend some time together if you dont than your partner can stop loveing you
2006-07-27 05:53:28 · update #2
You need to get your own place and a new boyfriend.
2006-07-27 05:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 years?
My god...
By shacking up and doing everything without being married, you have completely nullified the any significance of having a loving relationship. There is no spark, no excitement...nothing new for him to learn about you. Why marry you now after all this time?
He's obviously not interested in being married...hence not really wanting a committed relationship. Time to move on to someone who is!
2006-07-27 12:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it too late to get married? ask him if he wants to or else you have to move on. 8 years does seem like a long time without the idea of marriage ever coming up though. well if you really don't want to get married then tell him he has to go. but if he's crying maybe he really loves you and he's willing to try but it can only work if you are willing too.
2006-07-27 12:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by harps21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave and get his own place. You dont need to put up with that crap at all.
You seem like a bright woman I am sure if there is any problems a lawyer can always help out.
2006-07-27 12:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the majority of my friends are males, and they confide in me with alot of things. he's waking up to you, going to sleep with you, eating with you every single day, thye need space. and believe me if you were around him all day everyday you would feel the same way. if he was doing it before yall moved in together you shouldn't expect it to change that's how relationships mess up cause people think things should be different when you move in or get married but if you start changing then the person that you fell in love with is no longer that person. or you could just talk to him about it.
2006-07-27 12:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is just using you. I would tell him either start acting like were together or go move in with your friend.
2006-07-27 12:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've becoming boring to him and he just wanted a home of his 'own'. Talk to him and find out what's going on.
2006-07-27 12:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need to talk about this. If he can't make time for you then he isn't worth having. Trust me you can do better.
2006-07-27 12:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by pinkbunnylol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him it is the answer to all problems
2006-07-27 12:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by elbowachers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for what. tell him to go.
2006-07-27 12:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋