if someone was abused surely?

Question

they could help much by listening to others younger than themselves who have had the same problem.at least they know how they feel better than all these psychologists.do you not agree

Answer 1

Yes indeed!

Psychologists who are on the System, probably most of them, use their Art & Craft, or profession, to abuse. Find out what it takes to get on the System. They have to do someone out, or rob someone, in different ways. After they have robbed people, they are expected to pay back their own benefits with deliberate malice, disguised as academics and political correctness. They can be downright callous.

In the first place, psychology and psychiatry have a stigma attached to them. This circumstance immediately diminishesthe self esteem of someone because he or she, like everyone else almost, has a problem. They are expoected to tell people to shape up or "deal with it" in a superior and chastizing way. A recent local scandal involving false allegations of sexual abuse pointed out just how corrupt mental health personnel have been.

False confessions were found to have been forced out of children. The same question (did so and so sexually abuse you?) was asked of them 50 to 60 times until they broke down and lied. The children were rewrded for their lies with tours of the police or fire station. Preschool children were sexualized by being shown pictures of various kinky and perverted sexual devices from love shop catalogues, as part of their "therapy" for alleged sexual abuse that probably had never taken place, in this particular case. One of the social workers giving therapy had got his master's degree by writing a thesis on penile erections in adolescent and/or preadoescent boys. What a pervert!!! Where other than in psychology, psychiatry or social work would someone be rewarded and empowered by two years of intensive focus on such a matter? Of course he got a lot of the patients in that sector, boys. You may e-mail me for further specifics, because I am not lying. One of the mothers who had laid charges and was connecting well with the psychologists complained in court that when her three year old daughter showered with her (the child's) father the child insisted on stroking her father's penis. She was blaming the behaviour on the babysitters. She said insisted, as if the behaviour occurred repeatedly. A woman with a PhD in psychology and four all but grown up children of her own got up to the witness stand as an "expert" and said vehemently that children never lie! Can you imagine that? I am so glad we have "experts" in mental health to tell us these "truths"; otherwise I never would have guessed. She did not say that children are inclined to be frank while adults are apt to hold back and use tact. She said in an unqualified way, and in public court, that children never lie! I have met some who do. Is this a stupid statement?

You would have to ask yourself which people are the most corrupt, and which ones have the most maladjusted minds.

Answer 2

It depends on how they were abused and how they've dealt with it. Psychologists are trained in how the human mind works...why people do the things they do...yes, in many cases someone who has experienced something, can relate better to someone who has experienced that same (or similar) thing...however that doesn't mean the person with the common experience will automatically be any good at giving advice or helping person #1 cope with the issue or get away from a situation. They may understand better how person #1 feels, because they have felt that way also...but it doesn't mean a professional wouldn't know or understand how they feel, just that they may not have ever felt that way themselves.

Answer 3

Although it is often helpful to find out you're not "the only one," most people tend to be focused on their own story and may miss important statements that are key to really getting to the heart of an abused child's (or adult's) pain. Psychologists and psychiatrists (the good ones, that is) are professionally trained to really LISTEN and recognize certain behaviors. By identifying many of these deep down hurts, the terrible pain someone is experience can be brought out in the open and understood for what it really is. So, yes, I think it's helpful to talk to others in your own age range, but abuse is a terrible, terrible thing; and good professional help is important too.

Answer 4

GOOD LORD NO!!!, some people who are abused just grow up to be abusers themselves, unless they talk to a psychologist. Just because you had the experience, doesn't mean you can cope with it. Psychologists help by giving those who are abused the tools to express they're feelings about it appropriately and cope with the situations they experienced. But I think people who were abused can help, so long as they are in addition to not instead of therapy.

Answer 5

i think a younger person should listen to some one older that way the younger one could learn how to cope with there abuse

Answer 6

I absolutey agree. Experience is the best teacher. I listen more to someone who's been there and had the same experience than someone who read it in a book or has talked to someone who's been there.

Answer 7

i think of of its truthfully detrimental. those clergymen and nuns ought to choose to of ruined those victims lives, that they had no solid to do it (and optimistically eire will now pay greater interest to truly and sexual abuse interior the Church.) The Irish government have stated they're going to keep a nearer watch to infant abuse interior the church now, so optimistically the abuse figures will bypass down. i for my area think of of that the leaders of the Church (ie. bishops, cardinals and so on) ought to choose to be retaining a nearer watch on clergy - and somewhat in church ethos colleges to envision that those themes wont be happening, and pay attention the victims as nicely. i do no longer think of of all Catholics are like this (and by using no means all clergymen the two) so i'm no longer vulnerable to return to a variety or criticize the Catholic church for this - despite if the straightforward undeniable fact that extremely some youthful toddlers have been abused interior the previous 60 years does make you think of of, are eire paying sufficient interest interior the process those subject concerns?

Answer 8

listening is only one part of what psychologists do... and they do it in such an effeective way that they actually have to study to learn how to lisen so well...

It is true that suviviors of abuse can help one another in mny situations but not everyone who has survived abuse is actually cut out to be helping others... some just want to ge on with their lives.. and that is as it should be..

Answer 9

listening is IMPORTANT- whether it is older younger or trained pro

Answer 10

not sure