My Husband And I Have Been Having Uprotected Sex For Two Years And I Still Have Not Come Up Pregnant. We Think Their Might Be Somthing Wrong With One Of Us. Everyone I Ask Has Been Telling Me The Same Thing. Your Body Just Isn't Ready Yet. My Husband Thinks That Deep Down Inside I Don't Really Want To Have A Baby With Him, But Thats Not True, I Do Want To, But I'm Just Not Getting Pregnant. What Should I Do?
2006-07-27 05:14:32 · 13 answers · asked by Shay2725 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Honey it is all about timing it right and not having sex EVERY day. Your best bet is to have sex every other day or every 2 days. Also it would be a lot easier if you knew when you were ovulating. I recommend you read Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler. She will tell you how to tell you are ovulating and when to time sex. It would probably also be a good thing to go to your gynecologist and get checked. I'm not just talking a pap smear as that doesn't tell if you are able to have children or not. You need an ultra sound so they can determine that there is no scarring on your ovaries or fallopian tubes and that there isn't anything blocking the tubes. Good luck!!!
2006-07-27 05:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by estephania2182 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go see the OB/GYN my cousin tried 12 years yes 12 when she gave up and all test said she could she got pregnant. Doc said stress prevented her from pregnancy. Body is a strange thing. By the way you don't get pregnant by yourself it is physically controlled thing who is to say he ain't the problem? Besides your window for getting pregnant is only like 48 hours look on web I found a thing where I entered cycle date and it told me when to try the next month the less sex you have between the higher sperm count also.
2006-07-27 12:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by M T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are trying too hard then it could possibly be the stress....or it could possibly be sterility in one of you. To help reassure your husband that yes you do in fact want a baby with him, suggest that the BOTH of you could go to the doctor TOGETHER to find out what could possibly be wrong. A friend of mine has a child already but her & her husband have been trying for another one & she can't seem to get pregnant no matter what they do. It was hard enough for her to conceive with the first one....she practically had to stand on her head to let gravity help!
2006-07-27 12:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by §uper ®ose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something could be wrong with you.
Or with your husband.
Most of the time, statistics say that it's the mans fault that the woman cannot get pregnant.
Either way, you have to go get that checked out. It's not normal that you've been having unprotected sex, and no baby has come.
2006-07-27 12:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by blocupables 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctors and have a professional run tests on the both of you. That is what I did and now am anxiously "not" awaiting my period. I was put on Clomid. Maybe this is an option for you
2006-07-27 12:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some simple things such as ph in either your or his reproductive systems may not be allowing you to get pregnant. My wife was advised to start taking baby aspirin or lowdose aspirin. St joseph's is one brand, there are others i'm pretty sure Bayer makes one too.
here in michigan we have one place called IVF and they are affiliated with Uof Mich Hospital. you probably have several near you as well
2006-07-27 12:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Shrek'shandsomeidenticaltwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out a buy a Clearblue Easy Fertility Monitor too see when exactally you are ovulating...you might not be having sex at the right times
2006-07-27 12:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get one of those ovulation test having to much sex isn't good either ya'll need to relax too, if you are worried go to the doctor.
2006-07-27 12:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by jenna1k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a fertility specialist and stop any heavy drinking or drug-taking if either of you engage in this behavior.
2006-07-27 12:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Double 709 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go 2 the dr. have them take your egg and his sperm and put them together and if that doesnt help adopt every child needs a place to live.
2006-07-27 12:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by mochabrownie2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋