2006-07-27 05:07:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have told him it was over before and he told me that he will not " let me break up with him" I also have children and he has been highly in their lives since we started dating..
2006-07-27 05:09:38 · update #1
tell him you want him to be happy because you care for him. and since your not happy he wont be happy so he needs to let you go.
2006-07-27 05:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by GrownNSexy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost you must be honest with your partner. Tell them that although you do still love them, that you have to do what is best for you, which means that you need to be apart. Be sure to be gentle, and sensitive to the other person's feelings, making sure not to place blame on the other person. By doing this in a loving, yet firm way, the other person won't feel rejected. Above all else, be sure that you are ready to walk away from the relationship. Nothing hurts worse than having a person run in and out of your life after they told you it was over...
Good luck to you!!
2006-07-27 05:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by gottabreal2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay out all the issues for him. Tell him each and every thing you're unhappy with and let him know there is no fixing it. Be firm, especially if he is being the stubborn type and refusing to listen to reason. It's always difficult when children are involved but let him know if you're unhappy then eventually it will affect your children and you can't let that happen. Demand he respect your wishes to leave and let him know this is what you realy want.
2006-07-27 05:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by kel_kat28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iight well nobody lies doing this part but you gotta tell him sometime cause then you'll never get out of the relationship. So basically go to himin person (not on the phone) and tell him look I loved chilling with you and doing all of this stuff but honestly I don't see me in this relationsip going going anywhere and I just would rather us to be friends right now. It would be better for me.
2006-07-27 05:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Charissa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him sweetie the only reason you feel like you have to post this question is because you obviously care about this guys feelings but you just dont want to be there anymore and thats just how you feel. Tell him and he has no choice but to accept that. Eventually he has to know so make it easy and just tell him exactly how you feel. Dont drag it out just let it go.
Justin
2006-07-27 05:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be... 50 ways to leave your lover.
Just make a new plan, Stan
Just hop on the bus, Gus
No need to be coy, Roy
just listen to me
you don't need to discuss much
just drop off the key, Lee
and set your self freeeee
2006-07-27 06:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully your communication has been good. Depending on why you're not happy.....Honesty with as litte cruelty as possible.
Can only offer a cupla suggestions:
Nicely tell him that you feel you no longer have much in common.
Not knowing your age...
You feel you're too young to date one person exclusively.
2006-07-27 05:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest thats the best you can do, just tell him youve grown apart and you dont feel the same. It will hurt him but in the end hell thank you for the honesty.
2006-07-27 05:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by instantgratification1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I am not happy anymore and our relationship is over." If he keeps on bugging you, don't answer the phone, don't let him in the house. If he persists, you may have to file a restraining order on him.
2006-07-27 05:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by PuttPutt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look him square in the eyes and say, "I'm not happy anymore being with you, I wish you the best in life. Goodbye.
2006-07-27 05:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋