2006-07-27 04:58:32 · 14 answers · asked by mj23 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never -- I mean she's married and having an affair -- that is not a serious person to begin with.
2006-07-27 05:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she gives alot of exscuses like right now leaving hubby is a bad idea because...
or when the kids are older then maybe...
stuff like that,NO way will she ever get serious with the affair guy!
and if she gives reasons why she is seein the guy less,then NOPE!if she avoids talking about the seriousness of the relationship or avoids the L word....no way again! good luck
2006-07-27 05:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by adc7492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can hope not. If she will leave her husband to have an affair, she will leave that person when the time comes. How could you ever trust her?
2006-07-27 05:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by oklatom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The signs to look for is when she starts buying new clothes, takes extra care of herself and wears more perfume than normal.Some women go as far as having a strict diet. Another sign is when she is cooler towards you. But be careful, don't mistake coolness for being off with you, she might have worries that she is not telling you about. Be gentle with her, woo her back and spoil her to let her know that you are worth more.
2006-07-27 05:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by noel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dud,
your walking on thin Ice. Im gonna warn you because my first wife did this to me. She is going to open her mouth and hubby is going to find out. she is going to slip and say something she cant take back, and you my friend had better have good fighting skills to back all this crap up if that happens then she will choose her husband for defending her and his pride.
Out ,
2006-07-27 09:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by skawp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if she gets serious and leaves her husband for you how long will it be before she fools around on you? Think about it.
2006-07-27 05:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by nomad_of_gor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, even if she does leave him it won't be for you and you won't end up with her. She'll end up meeting a lot more people after she leaves him and won't stay with the first one she meets. You were a diversion for her, not the one.
2006-07-27 05:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if she chooses the lover, the lover will be the new husband o the other end... Bad deal either way...
2006-07-27 05:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by scorpiochick668 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you're 'the other man'.
I realise I'm answering a question with a question, but "Why would you want someone like that?"
This says as much about you as it does her!
2006-07-27 05:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have enterentered in to a situation, which already smeels of lies and deceit!if you are seroius about her, your going to have to tell her to seperate an divorace from her husband, then you will know if she is seroius, but then again if she wasnt she will be seperateing from you!
2006-07-27 05:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by close_my_eyes2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋