Im a 17 year old high-school girl,have a learning disorder,am introverted and shy,don't mix easily with people.
2006-07-27 04:57:49 · 6 answers · asked by yAYaN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well if u don't want to change then still u should find girls who as shy as u.. just take it to mature girl and be brave to meet new people.... trust me u won't regret being brave with people u know or people u don't know...
2006-07-27 05:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by ayooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a conscious decision not to be so introverted and shy. I moved around alot when i was in school. I was forced to constantly be mixing with a new group of people. It just takes some courage on your part. Courage isn't something that comes naturally...you just have to make a conscious decision to overcome your fear. If someone doesn't like you that is their problem. Be polite, look people in the eyes when you talk to them and be sincere. Those are all qualities that everyone respects. Another thing to remember is to be who you are...don't let anyone tell you that it's not good enough. You say you have a learning disorder...don't let anyone tell you that...if you are ADHD or people tell you that you are slow...use that to prove them wrong...you have the ability...you just may have to work harder than the rest of us.
2006-07-27 05:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Dustin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have some talents and interests, and I'm sure you do, try to share those with other people. Common interest causes people to mix well even when their personalities are different. I'm also introverted and I used to be shy, but I got over my social fears when I realized that there's usually nothing to be afraid of and spoke up more to find that people thought I was very articulate and smart. And I have found that quiet people often have very active minds which no one will think is boring once they get to you know. Everyone is worth being heard and remembered.
2006-07-27 05:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same for me, but i'm not 17 and dont have an learning disorder, all i can say is to be yourself
2006-07-27 05:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to have funn!!!!
2006-07-27 05:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....so wat r we suppose 2 do about this??? (no offence)
2006-07-27 05:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋