MY BEST FRIEND IS IN LOVE WITH A BOY SHE WAS FORBIDDEN TO BE WITH BUT SHE REALLY LOVES HIM AND SHE TURNS TO ME FOR HELP...WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO TELL HER??? SHE'S HURT BECAUSE HER LOVE WAS FORBIDDEN BY HER MOTHER BUT I KNOW SHE REALLY LOVES HIM AND HE TRULY LOVES HER TOO WITH ALL HIS HEART...SHE'S HURTING BECAUSE SHE CAN'T BE WITH HIM AND IM HER BEST FRIEND AND SHE LOOKS TO ME FOR HELP AND I FEEL BAD CUZ I DON'T KNOW WHAT 2 TELL HER...DO U HAVE ANY ADVICE???
2006-07-27 04:56:55 · 22 answers · asked by **MZ.CARAMEL** 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell her how it is cuz that's what a good friends does but make sure she understands that your not trying to hurt her!
2006-07-27 05:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you two (or three, if you count the guy) are terribly old. Her mother probably "forbade" her the relationship because she knew her daughter wasn't old enough to handle this sort of thing, or she felt that her daughter might do something stupid like get pregnant at too young an age. If they TRULY love each other, then they will wait to be together when they're old enough to handle the emotional ramifications of a relationship. This is not Shakespeare's Romeo & Juliet - though that's exactly what you have made it sound like. Your friend needs to get some maturity going before she worries about "losing the love of her life."
2006-07-27 12:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK she want advise give it to her that is what friends do. I would say your parents have their reasons and you need to respect that and you will understand more clearly later in life I suppose. Parents never do things like that to hurt their child they do it to protect their child. Keep them away from bad influences, violence and such. Besides most people never stay with first loves you gotta pick through the whole batch of apples to find the sweetest.
2006-07-27 12:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by M T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try talking to your parents to find out why they might have forbidden you or your friend to see a guy. They are also good to talk to.
2006-07-27 12:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by miss_mini_maddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i do have advice. she needs afriend, big time. just listen to her and be understanding. i feel so bad for her. that wasn't fair. people don't have the right to "forbid" another from seeing someone. the parenting needs to take place so, that the parent will trust him/her enough, in their choices.
my advice to your friend is to use the cell phone and see him at school. maybe meet a "bunch of people at a movie/mall/whatever". if he "happens" to be there is it really her fault?
i wish both of you a lot of luck, this is never fun. i feel so bad for her.
2006-07-27 12:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will find ways to be together if they really love each other. Nothing would stop them from seeing each other. Tell your friend that things will happen when they are meant to. She'll figure a way.
2006-07-27 12:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by danie_1024 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, considering that you two are obviously young (preteen and teen), give it some time! My God, you've got your whole lives ahead of you! Don't let a guy get her down. Be there for her and keep her busy so that she's not thinking about him all the time. She'll be over him in no time.
2006-07-27 12:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do right know if you truly her friend, is to be there for her, listen to her, give her time if she needs it but, don't never leave her site, stay put.
2006-07-27 12:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Niselove25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to give it some time. She is lost in the moment. Things work out when you learn to endure. Patience. Love knows no time.
2006-07-27 12:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by campojoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER THAT THERE ARE OTHER SINGLES WHO ARE OUT THERE WHO ARE ALOT NICER AND MORE CHARMING AND WILL TREAT HER BETTER WHO WOULD GLADLY GO OUT WITH A NICE AND CUTE GIRL LIKE HER SHE JUST HAS TO TAKE THE TIME 2 FIND THE RIGHT ONE
2006-07-27 15:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋