1and half years ago i got married(love married),now we have cute baby(boy), my problem is, my husband had a crash with their front house girl, i know about this crash before we got married,she allso settled in her life, we had a problem with my mom and we came to husbands place, my husband didnt forget his past girl, he allways use to talk, apreciate, insulting me, compairing my family and hers, allways telling that she is good. i am more beauty than her, i allways obey my husband, love him more than he do me, i left my parents cos of him, but still she remain in his heart, what shall i do (pls no devoce)
2006-07-27 04:47:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
All you can do is love, honor and respect him. If Divorce isn't an alternative, then you need to have an understanding with your husband. You need to let him know that you know that he still likes her. You have to decide if that is OK with you, or not. If it is OK that he likes her, then you need to accept it and live with it. Otherwise you will be miserable and jealous when he speaks of her. Good Luck
2006-07-27 04:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 1st subject I see is you call her your husband's"female chum" - no longer chum who happens to be a female. That on my own shows the message you have become from staring at this dating. His telephone conversations are truthfully beside the point & the reality that there have been tricks approximately previous thoughts is yet another pink flag. Why they could have made a unfavourable couple isn't the subject - the subject is they have concept approximately what it may be like tobe a pair. Your radar is flashing for a reason. The longer this dating maintains, the extra risky it gets, extraordinarily on account that he already has a history of cheating. you're actually not being insecure here - and don't enable him inform you that! you're being protecting of your dating. If he rather loves & respects you, he will end this dating - limiting this connection isn't an determination as any touch is in all probability to enhance those thoughts they're denying exist. What does her husband think of of this?????
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You cannot make someone love you. The fact that you do everything that he says and cater to his every whim will NOT make him love you. In fact, men prefer a challenge. Maybe he liked her because she WAS more of a challenge. Maybe you are too easy for him. Everything isn't about beauty.
What do you have going on for yourself? Is your entire life based on him? Do you have a life for yourself? If everything about your life revolves around him, and you don't have any outside interests or activities, he might find you boring. Don't focus on your husband. Focus on your life and you and your son's happiness. Your husband is going to do what he is going to do. You cannot make him love you, and honestly, I would not want to force someone who does not love me to stay with me. What kind of life is that? It sounds kind of pathetic.
Get your life together. Find out what you like to do and what you are good at and focus on that. Tell him you love him, but you he needs to decide what he wants, and let him be. Give him some space and you need to think, too. Really think about how you want to live your life, and what kind of home you want your son to grow up in. It sounds like right now you are living a lie.
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2017-02-22 13:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about it. He needs to stop comparing you two and you need to point out to him the commitment you two made to each other and how much you love him and that you are his family and future, not her. Crushes are passing things, or they should be, so he needs to either stop and really commit to you or you maybe should threaten to leave him.
2006-07-27 04:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a problem, I can tell you a problem with my old boyfriend after I got married, you wouldn't believe it. Angela
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