My boyfriend wants to have sex with me with the lights on.But i've an ugly body.What will i do?

Answer 1

Stop being so over critical of yourself. I'm guessing your boyfriend won't see your body the same way you do. Think about it ... you make skin to skin contact already ... I'm hoping he touches you ... I'm guessing he has a pretty good idea of what your body looks like even without lights.

If you truly aren't comfortable with having the lights on then let him know that ... maybe a simple glow from a candle will make him happy and set your mind at ease just a bit as well.

Be happy with who you are ... do the things you can to change what you don't like in yourself. But ... always, always stay true to yourself.

Answer 2

STOP. Wait a minute. Hold the phone. And anything else young people say to indicate their desire for an immediate stop.

If there is one person on this planet totally unqualified to evaluate the beauty of your body it is you. Why do you think Doctors don't treat their own families? It is called a conflict of interest. You are too close to the forest to see the trees. Gee, I wish I could think of two or three more cliches'.

My bet is your boy friend thinks you could rule as The Top Victoria Secret Model. And guess what, he is probably right. Give the guy a break. Take him home, close the house, turn on all the lights, spots included and do a strip tease for him, add some music too. Don't know how? Watch a stripper movie, for educational purposes only. Then in a few days tell him it is payback time and you sit and watch. Provide him with a Chippendale's DVD a couple of days ahead of the actual event (still sealed of course). Who knows, this could become a real fun thing for both of you. Just think, you come home to find the Chippendale's DVD on the door. You take a deep breath and enter your den of delight. I better stop, this will turn into a nasty novel if I'm not careful.

Really, have fun, and have fun, and have fun, and have fun, and have fun, and have fun etc. Get the idea???

Answer 3

u should tell him that u r not comfortable with the lights on and if he doesn't respect that then there is a problem............~*or*~ just tell him that u don't think ur body is that good looking then he should still kno how to corress ur body that much that u believe ur body is just perfect with or without the lights being on......well just tell him that he should be lucky that he even get to touch ur body ~*lol*~ but don't ever let anybody make u do sumthing u don't feel comfortable with when it has to deal with ur sex life bcuz that is a gift u r suppose to enjoy the way u want to enjoy it

Answer 4

When you guys are having sex what your body looks like will not even matter when your all into getting your groove on just have fun and hey the more you have sex it also will shape and tone your body up and maybe just maybe you will start liking your body

Answer 5

ok i know you may think your body is ugly but everyones body is diffrent.
if he in anyway thought your body was ugly he wouldnt want to have the lights on..
he with you so he knows what your body looks like anyway so dont stress.
if your worried about a particular part of your body try a position that woks for that part of your body.
no matter what it looks like most guys think naked bodys are great no matter what..

Answer 6

Well if he wants the lights on then I'm sure he doesn't think your body is ugly. Remember, your going to be more critical about yourself then he will.

Answer 7

Simple.. Explain to him exactly how you feel.. He should understand, if not then he's a ***. He needs to make you feel comfortable and let you decide when time is right, and when it is, you will know. I have always felt the same way, but it really wont help you just doing it against your will.

Answer 8

If your boyfriend wants to have sex with you, it's because he's attracted to you. And if if wants to do it with the lights on, it's because he's attracted to your body and wants to see it while he's making love to you--it's a turn on for him.

Answer 9

And who is your body ugly to? Apparently not him.....so, I tell you what you do, you turn on the lights....let him make love to you with them on.....and you don't look at your body.....then, everyone gets what they want

Answer 10

if you love him and he loves you, he will love your body too, a little self esteem might help, think about how he feels about showing you his body. and think about how you feel about his body. would you think his body is ugly? the answer to that question is the same as the answer to "does he think your body is ugly"