i dont even know if shes alive or not and im too scared to see her like this.
2006-07-27 04:43:39 · 7 answers · asked by iLoVe HoRsEs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you need to go see her, she may need a friend right now.
if she looks different it doesnt mean she is a differerent person.
it will also be good for her family to know that she has good friends.
plus how bad will you feel if you never get to see her again
2006-07-27 04:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you're afraid because of how bad she may look, but if she was really your best friend you would see her. Something bad may have happened to her and if you're not sure if she's alive or not you should go see her! Bring her flowers and a get well card and tell her how much you love her and how glad you are that she survived. Right now it may seem difficult because you are so close to her and you've never seen her in such a bad situation. But think of it as if you were in her place. You would probably feel lonely after an event such as this. You would want her to come see you, because just a smile on your friends face would let you know that you're okay and that you'll get through it. Go visit her in the hospital (I assume she's there right?) and tell her that you're with her and you'll help her get through this. You may be afraid, but think of how frightened she is.
2006-07-27 04:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by marissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what you're feeling is normal. It's human nature to dwell on a trauma like that. Talking about it helps, and the passage of time will also make it easier. Best thing you can do for yourself is not let it overcome you. Continue with your normal routine. Don't let it ruin your sleep or eating habits. Do things you consider fun, kind of recharge your own batteries so to speak. If you think you can't handle seeing your friend all messed up, then don't do it. Sometimes it's best to remember someone as you knew them, not someone you hardly recognize. This is similar to post traumatic stress, and if it continues to seriously bother you, you may want to seek professional counseling. Good luck, I hope you're friend turns out alright.
2006-07-27 05:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost you need to remember that she is your best friend and needs you. It is hard to see people we love when they are hurt or in the Hospital, but just remember that it is much harder for her to be there and that she needs you there with your support. End of story. My fiancee was hospitalized last january. i was the only one at the hospital with her. Her family could have cared less. It's important that your friend know that you are really a friend and will be there when she needs you. If you can't...then you can't really call her your best friend...i wouldn't even call you a friend at all. Friendship is not cheap...think about it...you would want her there if it was you that was hurt!
2006-07-27 05:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by Dustin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im sure ur best friend would love to see u. how could u not know if shes alive? u should probabley put ur fear away hold it down & see if ur friends ok. im sure shes scared 2.
2006-07-27 04:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by BOBO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do hobbies! hobbies take ur mind off things so like for instance IM people on ur computer, paint, watch TV, play video games, do crafts, cook, and yea anything else thats a hobbie! cuz my dog had to be put down yesterday night and all i do is do hobbies to keep my mind off him and now i feel better
2006-07-27 04:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's no good! if u really love her speak to s/o in her family or go see her- in the long run you'll feel better if u face the challenge don't try to run away it'll run after u
2006-07-27 04:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by MiniEinstein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋