advice. . He gets hit on a lot and I am not insecure about our relationship, I know I take care of him in all ways, and he reassures me of that.. But he has to go to this bank and a girl there asked him out and flirts with him and he told me he told her he was not available, I believe that b-cus he wouldnt have told me that if he was messin around. But my question is how would I get over this feeling that I have, I am not angry or jelious but just annoyed with females that are persistant. I am not sure if that makes sence, I just think she is a whore, and I know she just asked...AAhh any advice for me to get over this...
2006-07-27 04:32:41 · 10 answers · asked by Free & Sassy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thank You for all your opinions, it does help!
2006-07-27 05:30:22 · update #1
I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend is really good looking and it seems like no matter what everybody is always trying to get with him. I have never been the jealous type about this type of thing, but the best advice I can give you is to take it as a compliment towards your boyfriend. I always say to myself it's a good thing if all these women feel this way about the man that I have. You should be happy so many woman find him attractive because not all woman have the luxury of this type of thing. Don't get annoyed with this because it's never going to stop. Take it from me I deal with this almost every other day. If you know where you and your boyfriend stand then you have nothing to worry about. You have to be able to be strong enough to be with your man and be able to handle this everyday. I know it does get on your nerves sometimes, but women are going to be women. Like I said just take it as a compliment when this happens. It means you have it going on!!!!!!!!
2006-07-27 04:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel exactly......I mean, it's one thing to have a girl check your man out and stuff....but when they KNOW that he has someone already....I just think that's LOW!!!!
If they are persistent, then of course that's annoying, I personally don't understand how those type of women can feel good about themselves....if they are really going after him, how juvenile is that??? Bottom line is that you have to have faith in him, if he truly loves you, you have nothing to worry about...just continue to be yourself and tell him if something is really bothering you, honesty is important...keep the communication lines wide open.
I wish you the best of luck....jealousy, whether provoked or not, is a horrible thing to go through...I know, I've been there.
2006-07-27 04:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a smokin hottie myself, he's lyin if he says the flirting doesn't stroke his ego. It's fabulous. The big thing is if he has the charachter not to do anything about it. If you're keeping him happy in "all ways" then the old saying applies: "Why go out for hamburger when you have steak at home?" Just let him know if he gets all worked up he can come home and take it out on you.
2006-07-27 06:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds to me like you have the situation at hand.. I am pretty sure everyone goes threw this reguardless.. But if he's telling straight up he isnt available.. That is more then I expect from any guy.. If she thinks she's getting her kicks.. In the end, does it really matter? He's with you, and it sounds as though he is standing his ground and thats what most matters. I hope everything gets situated.. Good Luck to ya.
2006-07-27 04:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even though you think u r not jealous u actually r. This is normal in a relationship. It's not something that's gonna go away. Ur man seems to really love u if he told u about these annoying women. Trust him.
2006-07-27 04:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you loud and clear.
You just have to have confidence in your relationship.
You know he loves you and only wants you.
Accept it.
Remember when girls hit on your man it's a compliment to you as well.
My man is hotter then hell and I get very jealous.
Like you said you know you take care of him in EVERYWAY.
That's all you can do.
Have faith and trust.
2006-07-27 04:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just trust that your man is faithful. That's important in a relationship. You should feel happy that other girls want your man but he only wants you! I love it when chicks hit on my man or look at him like they want him. I just hold on to him tighter and give them dirty looks.
2006-07-27 04:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just invite other girls to join in the fun
2006-07-27 04:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by eric k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound insecure if you wern't you would'nt worry you would know where he is comming home too
2006-07-27 04:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by wanda w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
understandable....if you trust him then there's nothing to worry about....like i said, you need alot of TRUST.
2006-07-27 04:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jenifer O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋