Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and we do nothing but constantly argue. We split up about 3 months ago. shortly after we decided to give it one last shot, we agreed to stop arguing with each other and to try and respect each other. I have kept to my side of the bargin but he cant seem to keep to his. i have noticed that he only causes arguments when he is either in work or been to work. The last job he had was his very first job. he was only there for 9 days and he cheated on me with the boss' daughter. there relationship only lasted 2 days. He started his current job on the 1st of July and already this is causing big and bad arguments between us. We argue 9 times out of 10 times he has been to work. what is up with him,, why cant he stick to his side of the deal?? most impotantaly why does he cause arguments when he has been to work??
2006-07-27 04:12:16 · 16 answers · asked by logsy_babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no offence, but i would leave him if i was in your situation.He seems a nasty person at the moment.But, he could just be tired after work, so i would try and talk to him calmy but if he argues just leave. wait for him to contact you, it will be hard.Trust me i know, but believe me your phone will ring when he realises how good you have been to stick by him when he had nothing.
2006-07-27 05:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Claire R 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe history is repeating itself here. He's not keeping his end of the bargain and is picking fights with you. Do you really want to live like this? Tell him you love him, but nothing has changed and you said you weren't sticking around for it the first time, so you'll be darned if you'll do it again. His anger also might be a misdirection tactic, designed to make you look in another direction so you don't really see what's going on. Good luck...I hope he can pull his head out from his a** before it's too late.
2006-07-27 04:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just like the first job he is cheating again at the new job. Starting fights with you can give him the opportunity to have some time away from you or not speak with you so he can meet up with other girls and/or he is starting fights with you so he can validate the cheating to himself. Either way your with a cheater who doesn't treat you good. Its time to close this chapter and move on.
2006-07-27 04:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds as if the relationship is not working. It looks like he needs to think about how he deals with stress and reolve a couple of things in his head...also it sounds like you need to stand up calmly and refuse to take the brunt of his stress. Ask for some space and be kind but firm.
2006-07-27 04:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him as soon as possible - this is obviously going nowhere. Life's too short for all this arguing. It can't be making either of you happy. I've been in a relationship like this. Get out now before it's too late.
2006-07-27 05:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dont sound like the most reliable guy...Ask yourself do you wanna spend another two years+ with a guy who cheated on you without a second thought+if he does a days work will argue with you?.
Darling you can do better.
I promise.
2006-07-27 04:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by peter m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it poss he is having problems with work? The only time me and my hubby argue is when either of us are stressed. When he gets home sit him down and ask if everything is ok at work and see what happens. Good Luck xx
2006-07-27 04:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be under pressured on work. But it's not healthy if both of you always arguing. If he is flirting around, then he might be tired with you. you should spend sometime to think about this relation and will it last if it continue to argue? Think carefully as if he is your selected life partner then it'll be long way to go.... and are you going to quarrel/argue with him till rest of your life?
2006-07-27 04:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by AlienBZD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the problem is him. He already cheated on you, he probably doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore but he doesn't want to be the bad guy and break up with you. You should move on. You don't need that kind of stress in your life.
2006-07-27 04:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are one of the most confused species on earth. if it aint working, move along. u all talk about how ur ex or current are screw ups but nver can wait to go back to the said screw uo. people hardly change their attitudes 4 d better. if its not workin, move on. do u really believe one more chance will change him from his true self to the fake self u met at first.
nope. aint gonna happen
2006-07-27 04:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by viper3ez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋